I'll keep it sweet, she basically said I'd become boring. We've 'made up' since then, had a funny phone conversation, she told me she loved me.

But it is not the same. Definitely not from my point of view, and she's acting differently too.

I think I've lost her, but I don't want to end it and get out yet. I want to try again, go back to teasing - I think the fact I no longer feel as emotionally attached (I felt like we broke up when we had that convo) may mean I can start to game again.

We got quite close to 'going the full way' - big deal for me, furthest I'd ever been with a girl, hence the attachment. I reckon if I play it cool, I can at least get there and put the whole thing down as experience.

But I do love the girl, and it hurts how things SUDDENLY went from great > not - 'Active Test' anyone ?

Is there anything I can do to win her back ? Like, going back to how I was at the start ? Stop telling her nice things (girls are fucked up man) and tease, etc ... again.

What a shit way to feel on Christmas day ... wow.

But at least I can see it coming.

Well tbh, I saw it coming from the beginning - she has a history of breaking up after like 2 months anyway, so she has problems.

But yes, I want to get all the way, and if I think about this all objectively then at least once I've got there I can say the whole thing was worth it.

I know people will say "She's not the right girl, find another" but when you have little option like I did, I went with the available option that I knew I could game.

I was kinda the rebound guy, but she told me she didnt initially think much would come of it but she's really glad how it turned out and she loved me. Then the next day, the coldness started.