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Sort of. Obviously you need time out to think about what went wrong and assess the situation, but afterwards what's done is done. Hobbies and sarging is a way to distract yourself, it wont fix things just make it a little easier to cope. Exercise is awesome for stress relief as it releases endorphins (chemicals produced by the brain which make you feel good)
The self healing may take a while, but when it happens it feels liberating. Not thinking about what could've been and being able to progress with your self-development and love life feels ace.
As for actually ending it i personally would tell her how you feel. That way when you are further down the line it may be possible to maintain a relationship because you have been honest with her.
Okay, I see your point. Sounds logical. I'm just afraid that if I tell her how I feel and leave her - she will get "false" feelings for me just to get me back (we're closer than you think), and that's just gonna end up hurting me even more... But I'll give it a shot.
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Have you tried keeping her around and going out with other girls? You know shes seeing other people, why dont you do the same? It might cause her to try to pull you in closer, or it might help you overcome your love for her and also keep her as a friend and lover.
Or just leave her and forget about it. But either way being with other girls is going to be the best and quickest way to get over her.
Trust me, I have tried this. I'm currently seeing 3 other girls and sarging as much as I can. Apparently - it's not helping... No matter how much time I spend with other girls, it always ends up with me spending MOST of my time with my best friend. So even if I lose my feelings for her for a day - they get rushing back as soon as we start hanging out again. Big problem here.
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