Dont know how else to put this

So basically was gaming a girl a few weeks ago hung out a few times full close day 2 haha woulda been day 1 except for the special time of the month as well as a few more times in the week or 2 to follow. Sorta fell outa contact for a few weeks before it really caught my attention she was fun and want to keep her in my life for a while at least only to get resisted repeatedly when I suggest we do something.

Turns out in my actions and how I am behaving the fact that I like her wasnt conveyed and pretty much that I want only fuck buddies no room for anything else(which I mean is but isnt the case I like her at the same time as I want to keep working on my game.) when she found out I actualy like her she said:

"well then maybe I will start making time for you"
"maybe I just dont want to put myself out there to be denied or to not get what I may want one day"(there was a few back and forths before this but thats pretty much the reason)

So I figured out that whole situation but at the same time, there is this new girl I just met for coffee the other day maybe 20-30 min before she had to work(yeah poor scheduling but I had class till 9:30pm that night only time I had)

That night is when I had the convo with other girl and now even tho things seemed to go good/decent at coffee I started cannon balling down hill with this new girl like SUPER AFC things feel myself questioning if she liked me or not... which we all now doesn't matter at first just plow, the more you fumble around asking about how she feels especially towards you the less attraction there is there or the more is lost.

My gut tells me break it off/block her out for 2 days then re-initiate and play up the fun/funny banter then do a day 2 with more time and show my interest that way, I think i went so far as to tell the girl I am interested in her and got a cold ambiguous answer where as she has been warm and interested till that day.

***EDIT***
She is a bit more of a shy personality but open, probably a 9 5'10 Russian(from Russia about 4 years ago) she was nervous on the whole date so i just made her feel comfortable by leading playing like i was perfectly comfortable seemed to work positives response she kept good eye contact built up some kino with no resistance seemed interested from start to finish.
Any other info that would be helpfully let me know.

Guess what I am asking is anyone else have other opinions how to approach/correct this freight train I set in motion. Feel like im fixating a bit much on her but still gaming 2-3 others right now that I am interested in so.

I'm a bit confused... you are asking... How can I be not so interested in this one?

I'm I getting this right? Are you talking about the first girl or the last one in the coffee shop?

Stay in control of your emotions. That doen't mean don't fell them, just don't let them take over. There is nothing wrong (in my book anyhow) in feeling something special for a certain girl. Just make sure you don't become needy or dependent on the outcome and you should be fine.

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Alright Question is basicly what else can I do in the situation with the new girl(coffee shop) as the other one I can sort myself just wondering if my plan to correct "my fumbling" from the information I learned

The new info I learned seems to be effecting how I react/perceive the situation with New girl we will call her Girl B to erase confusion. Things were going well with her till Girl A told me that I never let on I actualy liked her. which the way its coming out with girl B (trying to express it more) is pushing her away.

Wondering if you have any other thoughts beside mini freeze out to erase the DLV I seemed to portray after having learnt about my habbit.