I'm having trouble progressing out of comfort with this girl and into a more sexual/romantic relationship. The problem? I am insanely busy pretty much all the time (law student) so we only get to see each other about once a week. To make matters worse, neither of us currently have our own place, so I'm stuck trying to convince her to come back to my friend's guest bedroom. Therefore, every time I seem to build some momentum with this girl (like when we stayed at a hotel for a wedding last week), the lack of frequent interaction seems to kill it and I'm back to holding hands and kissing.

I've never had this problem before, but then again I've always had my own place and never been this busy. Any suggestions, routines, etc. that one can use to quickly ease into more sexual behavior after a hiatus? Anything I should be doing during the week to keep up momentum when we can't hang out?

Thanks.

kino, kino, kino and then you need to escelate teh right way...turn her on so she is willing to have sex with u in a hotel room... or wherever

You guys slept in a hotel room together and didn't screw? That's not good.


I mean by the third date I'd be putting a lot of physical pressure on the girl to have sex, not in a rapist way, but in a "I want to have sex with you" way.

Why doesn't sex happen? LMR? You can't get a place to have sex? She won't come into your place?


You need more details here other than just "I can't get laid"

It's no use getting a girl sexually interested if the logisitics are not favourable. Kissing should be in or very near to the seduction zone.

If you're kissing and holding hands like a couple then it is quite possible that this girl is just holding out on you and it gives her power. She probably realises that you want sex so as soon as she's given it she has NO power over you. Some girls will withold sex to gain a relationship.