I ran into this girl I hadn't seen since freshman year (I'm a senior now) at the bar. We had never talked before (we just had both seen each other around) but I just pulled my usual incredible game on her and she asked me to come over and "cuddle" with her later that night.

So of course I went over and had a great night. She seemed super interested that night and the next day. In the morning she even introduced me to her roommate.

When I left the next day "oh I'm sure we'll be seeing each other again". Ok so the same day I texted her later on asking her what's up, we texted a few times, and then no response. Throughout the texting she didn't even seem that interested. Didn't say anything back to my jokes or when I teased her. Maybe I shouldn't have texted?

I'm not sure what to do next. Does she want a fuck/cuddle buddy or should I ask her on a date? Is she even interested?

This is always my problem, I can easily get the girls interest and her number, but after that I'm lost.

Any suggestions? Thanks

EDIT: This should probably be in the newbie section

why didnt you fuck her when u had the chance... just asking out of curiosity.

was she drunk when she invited you over?

is she playing hard to get?

I'm confused.

Please tell me you stuck your cock down her throat? If you didn't that's why she's ignoring you.

If you did, and God I can only hope you're not that retarded to mis-understand what going home and 'cuddling' could mean. Maybe she was just looking for a one of fuck.

In other words you hit a fool's mate.

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We wanted to, but no condoms. So definitely expressed the interest. We fooled around though. Trust me, the night went well. Again, she seemed all excited the next day and said she wanted to "hang out" again sometime. However, that probably means she doesn't want to sit and text me, but rather just wants the same thing over again. I guess I just expected her to show a little more interest. Maybe she thought I was under the impression that I wanted something more than just fooling around and she doesn't want that. HA well she read me wrong, but maybe by me sending the text it made her think so.

I guess maybe I should just sit on if for now, the physical connection is there. So if she wants it, she'll come around again.

I just don't understand why the next morning she would be all excited and introduce me to her roommate and even offer drive me to my car and tell me she wants to get together again if she really doesn't. You'd think she'd want to get me the fuck out of there asap if she didn't want anything to do with me.

What the hell is with all this passive aggressive crap that seems to be pervading the internet of pick-up?

Why on earth would you sit around waiting for something to happen when you HAD this girl dripping wet on her bed? Waiting around is what GIRLS do. She has NO other option then to wait around for someone to sweep her off her feet. All it takes for this to go cold is for her friends to convince her you weren't the right guy and take her out shopping and you WILL be all but forgotten.

OK, I admit she probably has some kind of buyer's remorse. But your choice of doing nothing will AMOUNT TO NOTHING.

You are a young man. With a pair of ball swinging between your legs. YOU have the option to directly affect your future.

Do you UNDERSTAND what I am saying?

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