I know this girl that I'm quite sure is into me. We live in different cities but I'm going to her city this weekend. I was wondering exactly how I should ask her to hang out. I mean, I think it's quite obvious that I should be straight up and confident, but yet, I guess, I don't want to put myself out there without a good game plan. How do you guys suggest I ask. I could call her, text her, facebook her, anything really, I've got her info. She told me that she enjoys this one cupcake place, but I feel like it's weird since I don't think we're so close to where I could just take her there, or maybe I'm just not confident enough in how close we are? Any help will do. By the way, I kenw this girl since I was in elementary school and I used to be an asshole to her but she's gotten over that I'm sure, she's been overly accepting of me since we rekindled our nonfriendship from childhood.

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text her: "hey xxx, i am in town over the weekend, why dont you show me around that cupkack place you told me. you would make a great tour guide .. ill give u a ring when i am in the city..."

somehting on those lines maybe...

just do it and good gaming

This is a bit off topic, but you know, I've realized that you have to just not give a shit for this to work. You have to be willing to put yourself out there without any fear or regret. The only regret you will have is the regret of not doing anything. At least if you try and fail, you know you tried and you don't have to question what if I had and what not. The game in and of itself has made me more confident because often with girls I don't know, I just don't give a shit how it goes anymore because I know there are some girls out there that are just dying for me. I just do what I think will work and if it does it does, if it doesn't, well then it doesn't, but if I never try, I'll never give myself the chance to see what could have happened. In a nutshell, dreamers just dream but dreams aren't reality.

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haha, your are awnsering your own posts nice job!!!