hi
i want to ask you a question guys
when you and your friends go in clubs or wherever to pick up do you have a sort of rules?
i mean like if something happen for example i start to talk to a girl your friend should leave you alone etc
i think a sort of rules are needed if you don't want argue
weeks ago it happen this to me.
me and another friend started to talk to two girls i started to talk to ema when my friend was talking to jessica
we talked to them 5 or 10 minutes then they left us for go somewherelse in the club.
after a while me and my friend took different directions in the club and we lost.
when i saw him again he was with ema the girl that i was talking before.he said i kissed her sorry.
i didn't ger angry and i didn't say much but.......what do you think?should i be angry?
do you think his behaviour was unfair?
i know she wasn't my girl and i didn't even kissed yet but just met.anyway i was the guy who started talk to her and maybe he should have avoid to hit her
do you think that my friend is not a good friend?i don't know how to judge this situation

if i where you i would be pissed!

Well my wing and I have one really important rule beside the others we made, like little stupid rules such as, if your going to get laid,contact the other guy some how before you do anything, so he doesn't have to go looking around everywhere, but the one rule we fallow the most is, who ever opens first gets the set. I mean sure sometimes the rules are meant to be bent, but i do believe that if your going to sarge with some one, the rule of who opens the set gets the set should be applied.

-Fate Adams

Here are a few basics me and my wing have:

1) Whoever opens the set, gets to pick their target. And they are theirs, period.
Develop some sort of code/saying that tells your wing who your target is when they enter set.

2) Never DLV each other, indirectly or directly.
3) Always accomplishment intro each other.
4) Never ignore your wing when he comes in set. This DLV's you instantly. You two know how to have fun together, vibe off one another.
5) Have a code/saying made up for when you want the friend to eject (usually it is whoever opens the set who ejects with the target, while the wing takes care of the obstacles.)

Hope it helps, there are plenty of other unwritten ones - but these are the basics.

Just make sure your wing doesnt chodeAFC it up, or you are both out of luck.

Me and my main wing have a couple of sayings that we use as a mind set for the rules:

'Friends stab each other in the front' - pretty much meaning for us, don't go behind my back and steal my target

and the typical 'Bros before Hos' - self explanitory.

we have never had a problem with going out and gaming sets, but usaully since i am more of an AFC then he is, I am the one who takes care of the obsticles or the fat/ugly/annoying/amog or anything else. We do how ever take turns in opening sets to make it an even score.

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-Death Before Dishonor

cudnt agree more with rule 1. this problem let me down at the weekend. i played a glorious opener for me and a mate, with a group of very good qulaity girls 4-5 all HB8/9.

then later, after seperation, and having a few IOIs off this one girl, i found my m8 getting off with her... and he then went on to get K-close and #close. after that, he wudnt help me try and get soemthing myself... he made one attempt at an opener which was shocking, she was nowhere near as hot, and the conversaiton was really non-inviting, it was just like 'oh this is my mate' rtaher than my 'shady friend / rings routine' form earlier. This got me nowhere.

i feel as if my wingmen are just riding on my openers and im finding it difficult to trust them as i know i cant expect anythign back form them.....

cudnt agree more with rule 1. this problem let me down at the weekend. i played a glorious opener for me and a mate, with a group of very good qulaity girls 4-5 all HB8/9.

then later, after seperation, and having a few IOIs off this one girl, i found my m8 getting off with her... and he then went on to get K-close and #close. after that, he wudnt help me try and get soemthing myself... he made one attempt at an opener which was shocking, she was nowhere near as hot, and the conversaiton was really non-inviting, it was just like 'oh this is my mate' rtaher than my 'shady friend / rings routine' form earlier. This got me nowhere.

i feel as if my wingmen are just riding on my openers and im finding it difficult to trust them as i know i cant expect anythign back form them.....

Get new wings imo.

I'm looking for a wing myself to start sarging with regularly and having just spent the weekend at a Sarge school (highly recommended) seminar i'll be making sure the same rules they use are adhered to which are same as above really

Whoever opens the set owns it
Never DLV each other in any silly form, low value males dlv each other and it makes you both look so
Accomplish intro each other/DHV each other
etc. etc.