The other night I was fooling around with a friend and I want to start fingering her, but her pants here on and I couldn't smoothly slip my hand into the front of her panties and she gave some LMR towards fingering. I feel that if I actually started fingering her in a timely manner without trying to wriggle my hand into her pants first she would've been fine with it. Other than asking a girl to take off her pants are there any ways to get around this? I know the escalation ladder says have you're hand go around from behind but it's the same front or back.

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"A bad traceur does a technique until he gets it right. A good traceur does it until he can not get it wrong"
-David Belle
"men who say it cannot be done should not interrupt men doing it"

How does a magician perform good magic?

He distracts you while performing his very logical act....

Bite her neck, lick her ears, make her bite your neck, kiss her, bite her bottom lip... this is called "foreplay"

Even if you do "finger her" she wont be wet until you use foreplay and you can bypass LMR if your become good at this, she will start to fuck you before you start to finger her.

You kill two birds with one stone in foreplay: you disable LMR and get her pussy wet.

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Havok
"He who hesitates, masturbates."

Thanks for that, I'm mad at myself for not having thought of it myself now that you mention it. I was doing everything you mentioned (cept getting bit) but I'd always turn it down when I tried to escalate, I should be turning it up when I escalate.

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"A bad traceur does a technique until he gets it right. A good traceur does it until he can not get it wrong"
-David Belle
"men who say it cannot be done should not interrupt men doing it"

Dont forget to be a man and guide her too, TELL her what to do. Examples:

"bite my neck"

"scratch my back"

experiment! Life is a blast!

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Havok
"He who hesitates, masturbates."