ok ill try to keep this brief...

i in a ltm relationship... met this girl at uni, she saw me blatantly looking up her... doesn't seem to bother and she bends over the bar knowing i was still looking... then turned to look at me before she headed off... a while back i bump into her again outside the building, with me standing right in the middle of the road waiting for a mate who was walking up behind her, she does not that yet and thinks im only checking her out, she stares back, and when mate turns up, turns out he actually knows her...so got introduced after she clocked, i was standing there waiting for my mate and not just looking her up, without even me saying a word to her apart from 'hey', she asks me to add her up on facebook and gives me her full name, to which i double took and asked again...

anyway ive established she does fancy me or so i think, bt when i add her up on facebook...she finds out im in a relationship and nothing really holds...she responds at times but no convo flowing at all...so i didn't bother about it...after about a year or so...im still in relationship and i bump into her on facebook...she says we should meet up for a drink and a chat... shit happened and i got too busy to find time to hook up with her...

i had to leave the country for a few months and when i got back, i brought her back a bottle a specific bottle of booze that we had talked about before...so she says pick a restaurant...and again i got too busy to set it up with her...i know!! im not sure exactly of her intentions...its all been going implicitly...im not sure of her intentions anymore...so anyway, the resto plan got dropped and after a few weeks i sent her a message asking if she still want the bottle...she mail me back in the spce of few mins and says yea shes just been really busy, anyway while chatting to her, she starts talking about a movie, and say she so want to watch it again and showed me the trailer, and i say i wanna watch it too, and so she goes ''one day we'll watch it together...and get pissed'' ... and not sure if she meant it about this or me just dropping the bottle to her at uni if she was too busy to make it up here...(which i proposed in the message) she says 'let me know when you are ready' and i thought cool thinking it was the plan about watching the movie and getting pissed together...

i got in touch with her last week (after a few days)...and asked if thursday was good and whether she got the movie or already got a copy...she replies yea shes cool for the day and she got the movie from amazon, and ask whether id be free morning or afternoon...thinking we were gonna go down hers, i say afternoon, and wanting to know for sure that was the plan, i ask 'do live by yourself?' , knowing she was living with her parents, she gets back saying sorry mate, i have a meeting dean, i can only stay for 1hr bt will have to go after that...she stays with her family and not on campus...so i say well we can do it down mine in the morning if you want...and she says...''think the movie will have to wait....i finish at 4''

so i meet up with her...she's very reserved and defense up, i didnt get much sleep and you could see i was a bit off...she wont sit on the same bench, ask her she wana grab a drink rather than sitting outdoors and she was hesitant but says yea, so we get there, she makes couple of comments that shes seeing some guy...which i don't think is true...anyway it didnt go great...exchanged a couple with her once on facebook the next day, jst small talk and said sorry if i seemed a bit off i was having a bad day (which was something i shouldnt have done i think)because she noticed, now she's joined a group on facebook became a 'fan' of a group called 'being faithfull in a relationship' ...i knw that's right up my alley

so she does fancy me and would fuck me if i wasn't in a relationship...do i mail her and say something like 'i don't do that all the time, i jst really fancy u and think you're gorgeous' or do i do nothing and wait till she does or say something..we both know the score..bt no one is really saying anything...i really wana get in those pants but im thinking if i don;t acknowledge whats going on and put it up to her, it has hit a critical point and will go down from here if i don't do nothing and wait or any other ideas of what i can do?

really would appreciate some advice here...

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