Sup,

I'm having a few problems when its comes to the dance floor.I get girls approaching me on the dance floor all the time.My problem is on the dance floor I don't have a notion what I'm actually doing when it comes to dancing with a girl, like I let her do all the work, I just hold her hips and she starts grinding.
For instance for the fourth time a really good looking blonde approached me and started dancing up against me.What each of them did was push me away with their finger smiling then I take a few steps walking backwards and then she signal for me to come back with her finger [ Finding it hard to explain] when I do walk back towards her she pushes me away with her finger again and then signals for me to come back, this ever happen to any of you? Just fourth time it happened to me with four different girls.
I don't know if I should walk back when she pushes me or hold her and go for a kiss close or something..
So Just don't know if there is a right way I should respond to this when it happens because its starting to happen alot.

Hey man,

In general the Dance floor is a place where girls have higher value than guys. This is regardless of previous social proof gained - you will lose it once you step onto the floor.
I think this is because girls have the option to dance with any guy. They can grind up and down on anyone they want and make the guys chase them (as you experienced). Guys aren't in the same position making it difficult to DHV.

You were (to be compeltely honest) tooled from the word go. By them pushing you away and beckoning you back in, you were playing their game. By avoiding the dance floor, you attract them to play your game. Preferably at another seduction location such as a bar where you are in control of the interaction.

My advice to you is move away from the floor completely unless you're out just to have a good time. Court girls in the quiet corners of clubs and failing that, just DON'T GO TO CLUBS! They may be target rich but it's more of a bounce venue for later on in the night. Once you have them then maybe you can take it out for a dance.

I read somewhere (I think on PUA field guide) that when a woman asks you to dance, you just pull her down onto your lap and say a cocky line such as "thanks for the freebie" or "where do i put the money" ...you get the picture.

Niceboy