Basically i dont have a problem with opening a group or girl, but i have noticed that i am definitely the worlds best at attraction building. I can sometimes start the attraction early when i first meet the girl, but it is usually not long before it fades and i know i dont come off as needy. I can't seem to figure out what im doing wrong and it is extremely repetitive.

On my last situation i met this girl who works at a local store and we had a night out. We went to a small party and she got really drunk and a lil sick. Me and her crashed at my friends house and she was out instantly so i didnt feel comfortable tryin anything so we just slept together (no sex).

This past weekend me and her were supposed to meet at a party that i was having and she told me she would be there. However she never replied to the text i sent her and never showed (she said she "fell asleep at home"). So i said no big deal and invited her out the next night to have a few drinks. she said she would text me after work and let me know if she was coming however she never text or showed up. I saw her the next day and she told me she fell asleep again.

So now i am doing a freeze out and hoping it will change the way shes acting.

however its been 3 days and she hasn't tried to make contact.


So here is my questions:

Is the freeze out the appropriate thing to do with her? and if not what do i need to do?

Is this specific situation an attraction issue? and if not i still want attraction advice.plz.

Any and all advice will be greatly appreciated.