| I don't mean the Comfort Stage, I mean my comfort zone.
I'm posting this so that others, newbs or not, will learn from my mistakes.
I've been aware of PU for well over a year. I watched every episode of The PUA and then read The Game. I've been coming to this site and others the whole time. I know this shit fairly well, much better than the AFCs. I got several number and kiss closes using these techniques early on, and for the first time in my life, was starting to become the ladies' man I've always dreamed of being.
Then I fell off. A few HBs called me out on my scripted, canned openers. I was rejected pretty hard in front of my good friend, after I had talked up PU to him a good bit. I became discouraged, and like so many rAFCs, I fell off; I hit my stopping point. My slightly better success with women made me think that I'd figured it out, and didn't need this shit anymore.
Here I sit, once again, learning the game again. Why? B/c I'm scared of leaving my Comfort Zone. That's all. I felt naturally high for days after a good sarge, but I still gave up when it got a little harder. When I think back to any given point in my life, my biggest regret, hands down, is that I wasn't good with women. I want so badly to change that.
The worst possible thing you can do, for those of you who have just gotten into this game, is be like me. I spent tons of time learning these methods, but I stopped practicing, and I fell off. If I had stuck with it, I'd be an mPUA now; I'm confident of that.
I understand the theory so clearly, but it's worthless if you don't go out and sarge! I'm like a sniper at a range, who knows exactly how to hit the target, but doesn't want to deal with the recoil, or the reloading, or the reality that he might have to take a few shots before hitting the bullseye.
I can't be like this anymore, it makes me depressed, and it eats away at the core of my being. I'm going to go out and sarge non-stop, crash and burn if need be. I see now that what separates the PUAs from the rAFCs is dedication, and willingness to step out of the fucking comfort zone, week after week, blown set after blown set.
I just needed to vent a little, but I sincerely hope that this message reaches at least one steward of this thing we call the game. If one of you reads this and it prevents you from becoming like me, I can forgive my wasted time and my regrets.
Sarge, sarge and sarge some more. Diminish your desire to be certain. Get out of your heads, and out of your comfort zones. Never forget that PUAs are forged in the field, not on the forums. <3
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Open with a fashion tip for her.
Neg innocently, with Kino.
DHV yourself.
Isolate her, then run The Cube.
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