Hey,
Last night I went out with my friend to a going away party for her 18 year old (HB8) friend. Upon meeting her I commented on the Jeep she was driving and how it sounded like she was peeling out when she got into the parking lot. She blamed it on the tires being so big, and I said, "That's cool, did you get them to match your ego, or is that just a coincidence?" She kind of laughed but not really. I started hoping it didn't sound as mean as I thought it did...
The problem was, that night, I could not STOP! I just kept making joke after joke after joke at her expense. She eventually told the table, with a wry smile and a fake sounding laugh that I was a real dick.
I tried again to laugh it off like I was just cocky funny, but I knew I was overstepping it.
So I was wondering if anyone can throw some advice my away about a negging equilibrium.
Hopefullly, I can develop some sort of push-pull before I end up with a perma-jerk attitude.

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What I did when I noticed myself really being a dick and not stopping with the insults was I started sincerly apologizing for them. This helped bring each one to my attention and I started doing it less often. Try having 2 premediated before you even talk to her and don't use any other neggs besides those two. you should never negg more then twice anyway!

PB41

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instead be more cocky and funny....negging is only applicable oif the girl has a high bitch shield...just negg once or twice to throw her out of the concept

yeah I had the same problem.. I still kinda do but I've been improving there..

just remeber, neg one or two times TOPS (unless she's a perfect 10)
and neg also as a response to a definance

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