i got this hot womans number coming out of the bus, talked for abit got her e-mail, talked to her after 2 days to set a plan the following week she agreed. I sent her a message this week when i was online chatting with friends and talking to her i said, "i didnt know you had that much free time, we can always hang out every once in awhile during the week. After that she messaged about a boyfriend and then, kept saying how on the weekends she is always out of town. Is this classic for going to fast?

Oh man north american women are agonizing to date, its ridiculous.

I dunno mate, does she have a bf? if so build attraction and rapport and destroy him!!! lol

I think u might have come across as clingy, u kinda used the

if ur busy "this time" we can do "this time instead" sorta thing...

u making it seem like she ur only option in persuit, she makes herself unavailable, then its her loss, u dont adjust ur game to accomodate her, unless u wanna spend rest of ur life changing to accomodate people?

she says she has a boyfriend, but her profile says single. i screwed myself, i do have a date on Friday so I'm half pissed. I messaged her to early, she acts indifferent all of a sudden, like anything you say she will respond casually which i find insulting. If i call her next Thursday I'm sure the same thing will happen.


I tried the ignore thing to girls like this, but they will never come back to you. The only times they would is if i told them their biggest flaw, it leaves them thinking and some will comeback curious.

I dont know how to salvage this if it is even salvageable.

man, not that ive been into PUArtistry for long, but i have been fucked around wth enough women to give you this bit of personal experience advice.
Ive been with a few hot girls, given them the best sex i possibly good (they have even told me it was so good haha!) and have tried the txt thing, ringing a day or 2 after, to no avail. If you xt and get a reply half a day later, then thats a sign to me now they were just after a bit of fun. When there are no x's on the end, thats also dead in the water in my eyes. I just reply with some short txt, little neg or something and leave it there. If they reply then do so too but never send two in a row or ring twice etc..
I was so into this girl, all over each other, nawty txting and all that, fucking in nightclubs when out, sooo good. Then the txt replies became blunt, no more kisses on the end for the libertine but i kept hope a little. But i knew she was with someone else. Was due at her house party wkend just gone, she rings me as i was leaving the door, her new man would be there but youre still welcome! HA HA dont think so. Should have seen it coming. Thought about outplaying him but was too disheartened. Cut it short dude, any signs like the above, cut your losses and move on for sure. Remember, girls can play the game too y' know! And they fkn do mate! Snakes in the grass!!...

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