Honestly, I just think it would be fun to tease.

Hell, if the whole game is just to get into girls pants then you're doing it wrong. This should be fun for both of you. And if you hint that your gay but give some IOIs, you're presenting a yourself as a puzzle. Puzzles might be frustrating, but they're fun too.

I used to get gay all the time, but that was before I was cognizant of the game...many of my ex-gf's thought I was gay at first...I was more acting on natural instincts.....but looking back...here are some thoughts:

Mystery Method mentions; one attraction switch is "Willingness to Emote" - I know he didn't mean act gay...but guys comfortable enough with their sexuality to act gay or show effeminate qualities attract certain type of women...this is probably because you become the exception...women are always complaining that men are pigs without feelings...so if you can show you have feelings without coming off as too gay...that's a good thing

Gay guys are also very high energy people. I've only been mistaken as gay when I've been overly happy and eccentric. Being high energy isn't a bad thing either.

Somethings I've said in response to..."are you gay?"....(responses vary depending on whats triggered them to ask me)

"No, can't a straight man have good style?" (smile)
"No...I'm just really into musicals! How does that make me gay?" (after telling a girl to watch Chicago with me)
"No, but I'll take that as a compliment" (said as if you're uncertain about it)

been following this post with interest as a couple of weeks ago this girl i was sleeping with said to me

'do you ever get gay guys try and pick you up?'

i thinking wtf kinda question is that? so i go nah why do you think i come across as gay or something?

hb goes ' nah not at all but you have the kinda body gay men would like slim toned tanned blah blah blah

i am not that good looking at all but i know my body is quite above average

thing is a question like that gets you thinking, was she just saying what she was saying? or was there some kinda gayness coming off me? lol

I have never encountered this before and it was sorta well....unnerving.

Thoughts on this?

In your case, wants10, I think it's clear it was meant as a compliment - everyone knows gay guys like hot bodies - she probably didn't want to just come out and say, "You're really hot."

I think people get gay vibes from me because I dress in quite gay clothing (skin tight tops and shirts), have longish hair and am quite high energy.

But as I said earlier if the guys assume you are gay and so do the girls you can do some cool techniques I have been working on. Like insta-kino, this is where you walk up to a girl open directly with your hand on the small of her back or wrapped to her hip. You then pull away and tame the conversation down with your next statement. This sets the tone, shows you are interested and skips a lot of kino escalation as you have already done it once why not do it again then escalate from there.
The main theory behind it and what I have found is there is a wtf type emotional spike then if you kill that off instantly it doesn't become uncomfortable of weird its just how you are as a person.

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I have had this happen three times to me. All three times it was when I was over dressed for the club I was in.

All three times were shit tests.

The first two times I failed. The third one I looked her straight in the eyes and very seriously said "Lets go out to my car and find out!". I don't think it would have mattered what I said as long as I came across as not being bothered by her comment.

I also think it depends on the girl. Outgoing, bossy, center of attention, vs. shy and quiet. IMO if she really wanted to know and not just get a reaction, she would ask in a some what polite way.

I always assume that they are shit tests because I would rather pull the girl into my frame than let her pull me into hers.

oh shit dude! you snapped lol.

i would usually say something like: "if i say yes, will it be easier to get you in bed?" or "if i say yes, can i feel you up in a non-sexual way?"

WTF? you know god-damn well that im not gay if om flirting with you bitch! therefore, imma make you feel like a violated little girl. girls know that saying things like that usually mess w/guys.

The easiest response is just "yes, I am a raging homo I like throbbing cocks and tight asses" if you deliver this in a sarcastic tone then you will pass the shit test and chances are they didn't think you were gay really anyway.

Finally I think folks have got confused by me I don't pretend to be gay its just a vibe I seem to give off but am fine with it because it allows me to get away with cool stuff, think russell brand.

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LOL -- CaptRow I should have explained better. My tone was serious but I said it with a smile on my face. It told her that I was calling her on her game.

This girl had been pitching me shit all night. She was a friend of some of my friends. I assume she wanted my attention. She was a solid 7 but I really was not that into her. She had full sleeve tats and an attitude to match. She rolls with some hardcore boys, I'm sure you know the type.

With her it worked. She softened and became human after that. Ended up making out with her later that night.

I would never chose words like that if she was a 21 year old college girl who has a 4.0 gpa, plays volleyball, and goes to church on Sunday. lol

Jaybot -- I like your use of sarcasm. I need to try and remember that if this ever happens to me again.

I actually LOVE this comment! Being called gay means you got style, and here's something I've used before I think it came from an old David DeAngello audio download. Just say "I'm not gay, I'm just gay enough" I've also heard that some women want to be the ones to "un-gayify" you so it might be better to roll with it!

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first off, MAGNETICONE, im not dissin ur stuff if thats what you think lol i actually like it and definitely gonna use it!

secondly, COLLOSO, that is absolutely the worst advice to give this guy ever. if i had a penny for every time i heard advice that bad...i would have one penny...cuz thats the first time i heard advice that BAD!! lol

i dont think he's gay, he's just intimidated by that line. at one point, we all are (except for COLLOSO, he's a natural pimp..just check out his sig bitches...). the moment you have to ask urself if ur gay or not, then ur messin up. ur not gay, so why worry about it.

anyone who has to validate that they're not gay is probably gay. being called gay by a chick opens a new door of rountines. be happy, now you get to game her

I threw the question back to her:

"Are you lesbian"

How about if girl says "You are girlish"

Dude whatever you do, don't fucking change a thing for woman. Enjoy yourself and make your game around you. The rest is bullshit.
Fucking right Wae!!!!

HAHAHAHAHAHA, Colloso no hate man, but think of it if you are metro (I'm 2, so I can say this) why would you get soooo offended by someone calling you gay, the only reason I see it is you not completely accepting your sexuality. If you are confident that you are 100% heterosexual and knowing that you f* tons of (how you refer to girls:) "Bitches" after all that why would you get offended if some HB called you gay????? o.0
Same here, when a girl comments that I'm gay or I'm doing something gay the first things comes in my mind is LOL, 2nd though: well I have 5 girls txt me right now flirting with me and if she is calling me gay then YEY for me. Thus 2 thoughts boost my confidence through the roof and I immediately go to my ultra confident me and make C&F comments or just smile at her, with that type of smile that says: HB you just made a fool out of yourself.


I see the only reason someone would call you gay is if you are overdressed in a club and you have ZERO social proof. So for that get AFC Adam's take on the social proof theory.

The only time girls comment about me being gay they always see girls around me or they know I have girls, so 95% of time "Are you gay" is a shit test which , having social proof, I pass easily as already mentioned.
noooooooooooo don't do that, I did that back in HS noooooooooo

NEVER answer with NO I'M NOT GAY, or get offended, you will fail real bad

I think that the only time you can say no I'm not is like Flashpoint24 said: "No, but I'll take that as a complimen (smile) "

DON'T even say NO in a situation like (once again Flashpoint24) said: "No...I'm just really into musicals! How does that make me gay?" (after telling a girl to watch Chicago with me)

It's a shit test, just say something like: "WOW....REALLY....WOW....you think Chicago is gay....WOW" , make her feel that, that she just made a fool out of herself by saying that, and she is not at your level yet and you are the prize.

I'm wrote this from my past experience, successes and mistakes with the whole *gay* thing, so this is my take on it.

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