I'm looking for advice on how to tool the obstacle who is clearly JUST a good friend with the girl, and how to transition the conversation from her auto pilot defence kicking off and smoothing back into conversation/routine where she can't accuse me of 'changing the subject'.

Background:
I'm pretty new this i admit but after a couple of number closes at a bar last night, a girl came close to taking me to the dry cleaners.

I was drinking which probably didn't help.

I first bumped into the girl at a pub quiz a few nights ago, she was with some people i knew, when i spoke to them i was the center of attention.

I complimented her on her hoody, i genuinely like the brand hurley.

She commented on me being a smooth talker.

I entered the bar like the life of the party and said hey, had a hug and demanded some sugar (kiss on cheek).

I put a glow stick down her top then wondered off, she then saw me hug some of my female friends and kiss a few (just lips or cheek)... playful stuff.

Then i speak to her in the smoking area and say 'hey you've still got my glow stick, i'm going to need that back later'

HB8 obstacle chump friend: Hey you're staring down her top.

Me: Why? Theres nothing different there from half the girls in this club

HB8: *laughing at me*

Then i got totally owned someway, i can't exactly remember what she said as.

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