Hi,

My first post on this forum, thought i'd search the internet for some PUA forum's after starting to read The Game.

Anyway, I'm pretty shit at picking up girls and thats why I'm here. Blah Blah Blah (I'll spare you the boring stuff'

Anyway, there's this really hot girl at work, who's probably a 9, if not 9.5. I started chatting to her in the staff room and added her on facebook and got her number. We've been getting on really well, chatting, texting, gone out for drinks with work people. I make her laugh and we both enjoy each other's company. One night after we went out with work people, everyone went home and she text me while I was at the bus stop asking me if I wanted to stay out with her, (this was at 11pm on Sunday) I said yeh of course. We stayed out till 4ish and then she got in a taxt and went home, I didnt kiss close but Im a p*ssy and got no confidence etc.

Anyway, I text her today and asked if she was coming pub after work on saturday, but she said nah mothers day party but she could do Sunday. There's another woman going who's mates of us both. Anyway enough of the history. How should I make the next move? Any ideas?

I'll post more information if people want it or pics.

Thanks

John

build up some attraction (look at some other posts for more info), and be careful not to go in the friends zone. neg her if applicable.
Also confidence is the key to sucess, you have to get into the state of knowing that YOU are the grand prize, and that she is the lucky girl...
good luck

yeah, just dont go into the friend zone, remember those negs.

you HAVE to kiss her next time you see her! i repeat, HAVE to. before you go out, tell urself in the mirror:

"im gonna do this! im gonna k-close this girl! i deserve to make out with her! its her privilege to make out with me!!! she not good enough for me!! if she's good, then i might even give her tongue! she wants to kiss me, all i gotta do is do it!! i am the fuckin man! i can do this!! we're gonna have fun tonight, and she's getting that kissssss!!!!!!"

YOU CAN DO IT MAN!!! you can read all the rountines on k-closing...but they don't mean jack squat if ur not gonna man up and do it!!! "rejection over regret!!!" there is no magic pill you can take, you gotta kick urself in the balls and just do IT!!!!!!!!


hope this helped mate!!!!

Thx CaptRow, thats a good peptalk

Ill use it, since im still a afc

Kino Escalate. Read up on it. But basically touch her. Start with tapping the back of her elbow when joking with her. Touch her back when guiding her somewhere or even better give her a 5 second neck massage when walking side by side with one hand. You could say something like "why do you look so tense" as you do it.
Get her to high five you better with both hands but when you bring your hands down dont lose contact with her hands and if she complies by not breaking contact link your fingers.
Look into her eyes with a face that sais i wanna fuck you. then look at her lips and back at her eyes. almost lick your lips. feel her response. If she doesnt break contact from your hands she probably wants you to kiss her.
You could also say "Im trying so hard not to kiss you right now." - Courtesy of Mystery

You know, if you're having a hard time getting the confidence, think like this (applying to your situation):

This girl already likes me. How hard can it be?

Seriously, you've been going out and shit. Of course she likes you!
Don't just hesitate, or you will fall in the danger zone of "friends only". Just go for it the next time you see her.

Good luck.