I macked this super super cute gal on friday...now its tuesday mornin and ive gone and killed it...

perfect setting...it was the voice lesson recital at my college (im a singer/music student)

i see her in the hallway...im thinkin HB8-9...definitely shy...sorta off on her own, waiting around...(she didn't seem to know anyone)

i see her and i smile calmly, she smiles back...

now, again perfect setting...the hallway is full of my buddies that i sing with...not to mention, they're all introvert types...the kind of friends i can totally dominate and demonstrate alpha status around there...

so i start joking around with everyone in the room...establishing fun and social props...i manuver towards her...i start talking to my friend Clayton with my back to her...and i turn around saying something clever like "you know what I'm talking about right?"

Her face lights up that someone is being friendly now..."Heehee Yeah!"
So i turn to her and start going at it...i ask to see her music and notice her song is in German and talk about why german is my favorite language to sing in...

all the while, giving minor touches to her arm/hands/shoulders once in a while...im getting tons of IOIs...big eyes/giggles at everything i say/smiles/ignoring other people/tugging at her shirt collar/and of course the hair touch...gosh she was practically styling her hair in front of me...

at this point i realize i have no exit idea...damnit...a friend, an elderly woman who plays the piano, walks in...i use this as a shot to close in on her personal space and create comfort by leaning in and whispering "If you want a good laugh, ask this crazy lady how much she hates Obama"...

i then hug the lady and ask her if she could help me warm up for my song...thats the exit...

i hand the girl my cell phone and tell her to put her number in while im warming up...she snatches the phone and starts pounding...

--Now heres where i think i messed it up...when i get out of the practice i walk straight to the stage as if i had forgotten my phone completely...

my idea was that as long as she has my phone in her hands...shes thinking "Oh, ive got his phone... i gotta give it back..." in other words...she HAS to approach me...which is always a good position to be in...

after the recital though...she doesn't...she gives it to one of my friends and leaves...

i don't let it bother me...after all she probly had a class or something...

i call her monday...ask her if shes free tuesday...shes got a tennis tournament...so i ask when she will be free...she awkwardly mumbles..."um....I.........Don't.........know....." I say, "well alright...Goodbye"...and hang up...

what the deuce happened?...should i have called sooner since shes shy?...

i keep hearing different PUAs saying wait three days...call her THAT day...call her in a week...so i just dont know...

was my idea foolish? would it have worked on the sexy extrovert type?

Not gonna lie thats a lengthy post, and I didn't read the whole thing

Good general rule of thumb: If the girl is shy neg her only once, then start to build attraction. If you neg her too much she will feel insulted

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The rule of "waiting three days" is not something set in stone. Just call whenever you feel like dude, just don't call nine times a day

Don't ask her when she's available, just tell her "Hey, I'm going to a party/club/museum/whatever on *day, come keep me company!"

i dont think she's that into you dude. giving you back your phone would be the least she could do. yet she gave it to your friend?? just next time, tell her, dont ask her

Now im no guru but since moving deeper into this im starting to learn this:

THE FIRST RULE OF GAME IS THAT THERE ARE NO RULES!

Lots of gurus say never buy a girl a drink, and I often argue with my humble wings about this one because I completely disagree! If you like the girl and feel shes earned it, buy her a drink go on!

Now obviously your not so far with this girl, but if shes in your class you will see her everyday so you can just be cool with her act friendly and nice and try and build attraction again!

But dont get 1itus because it sucks, however you get it!

Spark.

ive never seen her before...and i dont forsee ever bumping into her again...

i just sent her a msg saying "i ge tthe hint...its a shame your so shy"
not sure why the hell i did that...

but whatever...the end