Hey,
Sorry this is so long...please bare with me !..
There is this girl HB9/9.5 that my friend knows very well, she quickly heard good things about me from him and others and if she was on the phone to him she would ask about me, say i was hot, etc.. Then one night i happen to see her in a club with a few of her girlfriends and i started running great game on her, (it was difficult because her less hot friends wanted me so bad) but i kept cool ... like when she was hugging some guy i was throwing her winks from across the club behind his back ... spewing out neg's,cocky comedy and the works, and i could tell she was falling for me pretty badly.

Next week, i see her at the club but i was having a terrible day.... like really bad, my hair was ruined, (by the ever falling irish rain) and i had a really annoying friend of a friend following me around and making me look like a loser. (because he is one and he was killing the social proof i already have there)..... Ok it gets good from here on....

We got talking and just me and her, left her friends to go out for a smoke. There was no roof so we stood really close together under a tiny umberella i pushed between the railings. then the loser comes over and tries desperetly to out game and cockblock me. at this point, i was getting so pissed off i didn't do anything to stop him, and said almost nothing the whole time i was out there. She suggested we dance and as soon as we got to the dance floor she left the loser and started k-closing me. we kissed until her friends had to leave. Just as i thought they were gone i ran into a girl i know and stupidly k-closed her for know other reason than the fact that i could.
It turns out that some friends of the girl saw me do this and word got back to her. she then started ignoring me and turned me down for a kiss next time i saw her,.. so i stopped caring.
Now recently i ran into her at a small house party before a battle of the bands gig in dublin, we talked and she asked me to pose with her in a picture i did, and on the bus everyone was a fairly drunk and high and my friend asked (aloud) if i had kissed her to which i just waved at her from the seat across. He then asked her the same and she said it was under the bridge (in the past)
i now realize my mistake and also, realize that i have strong feelings for her and would have liked to have gone further than a kiss.
Is their any way i could get another shot,
thanks in advance,
Babemagnet.

... or even to re-gain her trust ?. ...

I don't see a big issue here. I mean,,, you guys have never even been on a date, let alone be considered some kind of couple. It's natural on her end to feel dispointed. Shouldn't be that big a deal.

So just don't assume anything. Ask her out. You've got nothing to feel bad about.

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Agreed knightrider,

yeah you have nothing to be ashamed about although this is how shes feeling when she heard..

maybe i wasnt special, maybe he doesnt want me, did our kiss mean anything.. etc etc take these feelings into account.

but dont let her gain the upper hand as you now have it, ask her out see how it goes.

Good luck:)

Cheers guys .... great advice...

Actually, I don't think that a long term relationship is so easily achieved anymore, play'a.

Thats what she most likely thinks you are, a play'a. Partyboy who is only good for one night stands.

Get you'r reputation straight .

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Dude your speaking the word...... ,but thats a lot easier said than done....
how do i sort thing's out ??

WTF bro tell her your taking her on a date....she kissed you which means she likes you so do somthing about it. So what if she doesnt trust you right now....you have built attraction so keep building on that. There is nothing wrong with letings a girl know you like her as long as it is done in a confident way and she has earned it.

Txt her saying "Hey whats up?" she will txt back saying "good and you" and then just say "Im taking you on a date. When are you free this week?"....If she says no then you dont txt back or talk to her for a while but she wont. Then dont tell her were you are taking her just tell her its a surprise and to trust you....she will then say ok and now you have a date and she is building trust. Start thinking on your feet man comon lol

It's sorted..... f closed last night .... but, that for a different post..