I've been in a series of relationships so haven't been gaming for a while. However, my last one is coming to an end which think is cool, I crazy about her, but crap, shut the fuck up bitch [She is an 7.5]. But thats not the issue.

I picked up a chick unintentionally.

Goes like this. A while back, I was live blogging a major event, and during the event my Blackberry got broken. Following day I was out to get it fixed and I got lost. So I walked into this shop and this 8.5 popped out of nowhere. I wasn't actively looking to shag her or anything, I just asked where the Blackberry store was. She pointed me in the right direction and that was that. I made some random joke, and she cracked up during the 2 mins of directions. She got out of my head, got my phone fixed and did not see her for like 2 days. Anyway, I'm walking past her shop unintentionally and she comes out running, asks me to come in and chat. I told her I have things to do and then said what must have been the most crap line at that time. I was like, "if you like smiling, and I can see that when you do it gets pretty, your number should be in there with the rest of the ones who like smiling". She grabs the Blackberry, dashes her number in and I'm on my way. I wasn't trying.

Called her up, we started talking, having afternoon juices, lunches, 3 days later kiss close. Weekend, my woman was away, she came over, and she was ready for an F-Close, but I wasn't feeling it, so I declined. By ready, I mean that every call sign known to man God put on this planet for men to shag women, and women to indicated that they are ready and willing and able to catch a shag were there. I just did not feel like it. Not that day. Which may/may not have been my undoing. So we smoked some shisha, talked, and then I took her home. A couple of days later, she got sick, calls me up, I went, took her to hospital, she was sick, got her sorted, and we moved up a notch.

She is in church right now as I type this, Im at home chilling and she texts me to say that when she closes her eyes to pray, I'm deep in her head. Cool. I'm like, come by later, we can get this thing going.

Now this chick is uber cool. Religious, but obviously ready for me. She has quickly become buddies with my sisters and my family. My dad told me she is a keeper. In our society, thats like the ultimate blessing. Not that I need it, but it goes a long way. She is friends with my 2 fuck buddies [7s] who will always have a 3some with me when my woman is on the freezer. Such friends that they are encouraging her to hook up with me. Weird. I thought I was getting played but it wasn't. She knows we have a shagging thing going and has said that it should end if we became an item. Which is cool. She has lunch with my mum and grandma (WTF) twice a week, exchanging gifts and making all sorts of plans. Which I'm quite cool with. I'm preparing to boot my current woman out. But my HB is engaged and confused about what to do about her dude. He is your typical I will fuck u up if I hear a man is about prick. We are having too much fun, but then some BS is coming up her end. At least I think.

I have to obviously get rid of the guy, but she is not confident about breaking off the engagement which she wants to. We are still quite a traditional society, so if she does, she gets disowned by her family if not worse. I've been freezing for the last two days trying to give her time to sort her head out. But thats the only sticky thing in this story. How do u give a woman confidence to stand against the tide? I have done everything else except this. I need to help clear her confusion, obviously in my favor. Her family I can handle. This is the one who 99.9% becomes the wifey.

Thanks.

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Style, its me. I came back like I promised. I love her, Style and I love the game. Help me Style. I want to conquer her and the game. Or lose one for the other.