So I’ve been doing some thinking the past couple of months in regards to the girls I am dealing with and usually come in contact with. My initial intentions with joining this community and proceeding with this stuff was not to use it as a means of getting laid by multiple/different girls because that hasn’t really been a big problem in the past.

But, getting with girls that are intelligent/classy (not pretentious) and carry great conversation is my aim out of all this. (i.e. surround myself with an attractive/intelligent circle)

The problem, and I’m not sure if it is a problem is that I am pretty social and need to always get a number of a girl I meet instead of just saying bye and in that case it turns out to be more [[[quantity than quality]]] which was something a friend of mine mentioned and it really hit home because of its truthfulness.

So, the reason I’m opening up to you guys is that I want your input on how I can achieve meeting the kind of girls I am aiming to get. I have to say, this stuff has really given me a push to be even more social but I need to use that in an effective way.

Is it a matter of going to better venues, not getting numbers from average chicks??? I don’t know!

Hope to hear your thoughts guys,

Cheers,
Laspit

You're on the right track!

Basically, to fix this type of sticking point situation. You've already done the first step in that you know what you have to fix. That's the good news!

Hell you even have started on the 2nd step which is how to fix this. What type of plan can we come up with? If you want to meet hotter women then we need to just approach and talk to hotter women.

It's time to set a goal. You need to set a goal to only approach women you find acceptable. DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO SETTLE. Let's say your goal is to approach 20-30 women to your "caliber" before you can talk to someone else.

Now this doesn't have to be done all at once. You can do something like go out let's say you make yourself do 4-5 hot girl approaches in the night before you allow yourself to approach others. That way you're improving on this. It's up to you to figure out the exact plan and hold to it, but it will work if you do it.

I'm sure you're up to the challenge

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Have you considered the venues you're operating in? Is it bars?

Perhaps consider something like those big bookstores. I think book stores can be ideal. Always a couple good looking gals around. And since they're in a book store, good chance that they've got some brains.

Heck, you can even get a read on them. What section are they looking in? Photography? Hmmm,, I like that. Self help book section? Move on.

Book stores typically have great coffee and a book about any subject you might have an interest in, that you can read for free while you are scanning.

Good luck.

Interesting!

The book store idea is true, but I think it may stem down more to discipline and talking with the girls more and getting to know them better before i just grab a number and taper off.

whats your thoughts?

any other ideas?