We talk most nights on MSN for a few hours, barely see eachother though because our lessons at college are at completly different times. A moment happened about a month ago that apparently was good by me, not entering the world of PUA until last night.. here it is.

Outside the vending machines -

Her: I've had like 6 chocolate bars today!
Me: You're a bit of a fatty aren't you (not serious tone)
Her: Laughs, smiles and playfully punches/slaps my arm

I got told that this was good. However, it was about a month ago. We don't really see eachother and I'm afraid that now we're too into the friend zone for anything to happen. We are quite close in that respect.

Any tips on where to go from here?

You got nothing to lose if you're in the "friend zone",,,

I'd say add some spice to MSN. Know what I mean?

Good luck.

Haha, I like how when we're limerant (one-itis) we exponentially amplify every minute interaction with the girl. Although I doubt you're fully limerant. But anyway, I'm not dissing, we all do it, and giving specifics is good it enables us to help you better.

I disagree with the advice from the person above me.

What I would suggest is that you GET THE FUCK OUT OF FRIENDZONE. In my opinion friendzone is the #1 greatest killer of getting laid.

How do you do this? Stop playing the provider role and start playing the seducer role. Be the bad guy more. Stop giving her unconditional friendship and instead give her conditional romance; start teasing her, steer conversations towards romantic/sexual/attraction threads.

Explain to her how you're not actually such a nice guy, and challenge her - you don't think she could handle you. Set up challenges.

Show her that you are mature about sex, that whilst you think it is great you don't give it immature amounts of status, as if it will happen sooner or later. Show her that you understand the need for discretion and don't tell everyone about your exploits with other girls.

Don't put her on a pedestal but instead 'pretend' that she is chasing you rather than the other way. You'll have to do this all over msn/text until you've built enough value and attraction to ask her out to a party/social event with you, or some more time spent together in college or something. Do that as soon as you can and take things from there.

I can just imagine the OP playing that moment in his head over and over again lol. With a smug smile of self satisfaction.

Seriously, just do what you have to do, sounds like the interaction physically might be somewhat stale, ditch the msn, start talking to her when you can, try to interact, maybe set up an outing. Get lunch together, whatever works.

Take it from there.

Demps.