Right i had isolated a hb 9 outside and it was all going well when 2 girls that where like my ex stalkers like seriously stalkerish and only like a hb3. Came over(There mates with the HB9)
and where like "omg why you talkin to this kid hes a fuckin nobhead blah blah"
My responce was to go !fuck off and leave me alone for once...stop fuckin followin me around!" then they started slappin me lightly going "fuck off seriously we dont want you here" blah blah
so i just went "sort ya fukin lives out ya stupid skets" and walked off.

I was thinking after it about what to say to disarm them and get them on their way i was thinkin something like
Me- im a knobhead? go on name ONE fact you know about me?
BITCH-erm....well...
Me- Go on just one small fact...?
Bitch- ermm ermm..
Me- Exactly see you know FUCK all about me so dont think you can go around calling me a nobhead and trying to make me out to be something im not when you FUCK all about me. you contradicted yaself by having such a strong statement and nothing to back it up. Now if i was you id just leave.

or something alone them lines.
Thers two things i need to know....
1-What to do when 2 bitches come and do shit like that...what would you have done

2- What to do when a girl slaps you even if its a joke or seriously etc.

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Instead of using such colorful words (be light on the cussing cause this does drive chicks away.) you should of said something along the lines of

Her- OMG why are you talking to him, he's such a knobhead
You- ok ok calm Down ladies. I promise there's enough of me to go around *whisper to HB9* are you're friends usually like this? I haven't said anything to them and they've become devoted fans already.

When they slapped you lightly

You- watch it your gonna mess up hollywoods sexiest face *run your hand through your hair*

If they would of kept acting up then politly eject and most likely the HB9 would of been pissed at them cause you were making her laugh and she was having a good time and would of probably tried to find you again later when they weren't around.

But for the record, when your trying to game a chick never curse out her friends infront of her. This really kills your game

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I think every response mentioned so far has been pretty bad. The original poster's responses, both the hypothesised and elicited ones are diabolical!

Ok:
1. Basically I would have amogged them. So they come, you see they're going to be trouble so you immediately seize the frame. The energy is going to be with them, you can either battle that energy, or promote it and use it to your advantage. So, they come, you say "Heyyyyyyyy girls! I like your top (disarm with compliment), my ex girlfriend use to have one like that!" (neg in disguise, which causes her to qualify)

Then, the killer amog line: "Don't worry Jenny, I like you guys, you have nothing to prove to me. So what are you guys up to?"

Then you just patiently converse with them, and you have a new logistical issue to sort out which is how to re-isolate HB9. HB9 will want you more because you proved yourself to her friends, so you may want to #close which will be a piece of cake there.

If you don't catch them in time, and they say “omg why you talkin to this kid hes a fuckin nobhead blah blah" You HAVE TO AGREE WITH THEM. Remember we are working with their energy, not against it. So you say something like:

“Haha yeah totally, I’m a fuckin nobhead, why are you talking to me?” (Smiling, and growing big, walking into them really intimidating) “But you know, I like you guys, you guys have energy. It’s good to have energy don’t you think? (They say yeah, you’re asking so they go along with you) So what you guys up to anyway? Enjoying the party?”

You see how it works? This is quite advanced stuff. It’s all about neutralizing the bomb. You need careful hands and patience. It’s about diffusing the energy in the conversation.

Now, for your second question :
2- What to do when a girl slaps you even if its a joke or seriously etc.

A girl should never slap you! That means you lack the non-verbal or sub-communicated dominance in the interaction. Or it means the girl is just a plain bitch. Best thing to do is to block it if you have quick reactions. If not, there are a range of things you could do, but the main thing is that you RE-ESTABLISH YOUR DOMINANCE.

1. “Hey, hands off the merchandise.” (classic)
2. “Hey, you can look, but you can’t touch” (also classic)
3. This is what I would do: Be really comical and be like “Hey, what’s that for? Do you always show your affection like that?” (Grab her shoulder and squeeze it hard, painfully hard, and shake it a little bit, whilst addressing the group with a beaming smile and comedy). This will make sure the bitch never does it again, but I usually go a step further: Then finally stare into her eyes and smile slowly and say “you know what?” (bait her) “Now I owe you a slap” (Say with momentum, then raise your hand quickly and pretend you’re going to hit her). Then stop just before you reach her, go back, and now you can say pretty much anything and it will be accepted because you are RELEASING THE TENSION. I would say, “I wouldn’t do that, you like me too much”. She won’t disagree to any strength, because of the preceding moments.

Fantastic.

Rafiel Gamble- I tend to say "did you just slap me? Now you have to kiss it better" and make them kiss my cheek it works almost all of the time. Is that re enforcing dominance?

and yer i know my first responses where poor thats why i asked for adivce ther was no need to tell me again that they where shit but i was pissed i wasnt really that bothred about closing her i just wanted advice.

Cheers if it ever happens again ill know how to defuse the situation

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1. When you had this SHB9 in isolation and these 2 girls entered the set the situation changed because you now had a 3 set at your hand with your target (SHB9) and 2 CBs. So what you want to do is not to act like an beta and be offended by these 2 CBs. So what you as an ALPHA should do is to neutralize these obstacles by befriending these 2 friends of the target. When you responded their "omg why you talkin to this kid hes a fuckin nobhead..." by "fuck off and leave me alone for once...stop fuckin followin me around!" you actually DLVed. This made these 2 CBs being more of CBs against you. Therefore they answered by being more hostile and hitting you and saying "fuck off seriously we dont want you here...". You made the situation worse with your answer "sort ya fukin lives out ya stupid skets". The only right thing you did so far in this situation was to leave the set. So you walked off. You destroyed the entire situation with your beta actions.

Girls are almost never "bitchy" towards me so therefore I now wonder what you did to get these 2 CBs come and act like they did? One other thing is that you seem to care too much about the outcome of the situation you are in. This is not ALPHA! BTW How do you handle AMOGs? Are you afraid of them and therefore start acting like they are some sort of danger to your game?

2. For the second answer I also agree with Rafiel Gamble. The problem is just that girls don't slap me. Girls can punch me on my arm in a playing manner so don't take that seriously as that is an IoI but play along with her. She wants to have fun with you. Therefore. No hard feelings!

Basicly the 2 CBs used to pritty much stalk me. So i decided to remove them of facebook stop talking to them and just tell them to leave me alone. Thats why they dont like me. I just tried to get them out of my life.

I hardly have any girls coming over being bitchy thats why i put this post up.

The reason i answered agressivly i believe was because of alchahol. (i wasnt planning on sarging as id been to a HBs house before that im kind of seeing)

AMOGS i tend to be good when any amog comes into the set im not AMOG destroyer and dont claim to be but i can handle most situations with making him look beta or by making him appear creepy to thr targets.

The slapping situation tends to come up in play fighting for example we will start a play fight over whos college is better. Theyll end up slappin me but just lightly tap on the face...playfull like. And i just use a neg then make them kiss my cheek.

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That could be ok if it works and if you say it in a funny and unaffected way, but I wouldn't recommend it. It's far too easy for the HB to say no. You put the ball in the HB's court which allows her to steal the frame and DLV you because you lose dominance. Always keep the ball in your court. Sorry, I apologise for being mean. When I am mean it usually follows a really long and hopefully helpful response, because I want to help you. So hope that makes up for it =). I appreciate you were a bit tipsy at the time of posting.

Right i need a bit of help now again!!! haha

Heres the situation.....
College is starting again soon and as i see the HB9 around alot just like in the corridoor etc i want to open her seeining though we already started a conversation on the night when the 2 bitches fuked up my set.

The only problem is she tends to CONSTANTLY be with the 2 bitches.
I allways notice the HB9 looking at me accross the canteen, Smiling, Eye contact all that.
And im just thinking HOW CAN I OPEN HER?

I wasthinking of next time she smiles at me....wait till the 2 bitches go....walk past and say something like "God dont you know its rude to smile from across the room and not even say hi"*smile* then walk off.

Suggestions?

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Gamble's response is excellent.
I've been bitch slapped twice when I was young. 1st, ME: Never do that again. She did. So I fetched a girl friend who went ape shit on her.
2nd time, ME: Do you consider that acceptable behaviour from your friends? (said to target). She told her friends it was not.
NB: When I turned 19 I stopped being a cock to girls and girls stopped being bitches to me.

Peace

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