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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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Rocker
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I enjoy hanging around this chick and of course fucking her brains out, but she is getting too attached.. I let her come over like every other day and she has been at my house for the last week straight. I am having a good time, but she is starting to fall in love with me. I just got out of a long relationship and I am not ready for a girlfriend right now.

Any advice on distancing myself to have her come over once or twice per week without breaking her heart and or pissing her off?
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Just claim to be busy and distance yourself from her a little, say you've got a work project and need to be alone for the next few days etc.

Also dont bring up a conversation that might lead to a discussion about bf's or gf's. At the beggining of the night, let her know that she can only stay for an hour or so because you need to go visit your mum or grandma or some shit like that. Make EVERYTHING a time restraint and see how that works for ya.
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why dont you just tell her straight up that u arent looking for a relationship at the moment, but if u were it would definitely be with her(lie!). and that u want to keep her around(basically so u can keep fucking her).
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ok first of all if i were you i definitly not lie to her. It might work for a while but not a solution to your problem itll just buy you time. Not only that eventually shes going to smell a rat and bust you and you dont want to get the reputation of being a liar cause in a girls eyes theres nothing worse. I would say that honesty is the best policy and tell her you dont want to have a gf. Remember in order to get the girl you have to be willing to lose her.
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Thanks for the tips, I have been honest with her and told her from the beginning I do not want to have a girlfriend right now. She is girlfriend material, but I don't want girlfriend material right now, I just want to be single and have fun. Unfortunately I sound like a piece of shit when I say this to her.
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The best strategy is:
1. Drastically reduce the time you spend with her. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. Anything more than 1x per week = lead to relationship. 1x per week could also be too much depending on your level of attraction.
2. Be completely honest with her. She has to know that you're only FB's. If you're good enough in bed, she'll come back for more anyway.
3. If she's into a relationship, find somebody else to mess around with and end it with her. You'll be more of a creep to keep her hanging on than to end it with her.
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Just claim to be busy and distance yourself from her a little, say you've got a work project and need to be alone for the next few days etc.

Also dont bring up a conversation that might lead to a discussion about bf's or gf's. At the beggining of the night, let her know that she can only stay for an hour or so because you need to go visit your mum or grandma or some shit like that. Make EVERYTHING a time restraint and see how that works for ya.
NOOOOO^ Don't do that. Whoever said that is a complete retard. That will only make her want you more!!! It's just a freeze out/false time constraint.

I have a similar sticking point at the moment so can't help much.
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It may be too late by now, but I find that if you're straight up from the start...

"I'm not looking for anything serious right now... I've just got so many things on the go right now that I hardly have enough time for me, let alone to dedicate to a relationship..."

It won't always result in a repeat customer, but when it does, it's pretty solid.

Women get mad no matter what, when they get clingy. If you're able to say "I have never been anything but honest with you", and they know it, you're in the clear (after she calms down).

Good luck bro.
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Just claim to be busy and distance yourself from her a little, say you've got a work project and need to be alone for the next few days etc.

Also dont bring up a conversation that might lead to a discussion about bf's or gf's. At the beggining of the night, let her know that she can only stay for an hour or so because you need to go visit your mum or grandma or some shit like that. Make EVERYTHING a time restraint and see how that works for ya.
NOOOOO^ Don't do that. Whoever said that is a complete retard. That will only make her want you more!!! It's just a freeze out/false time constraint.

I have a similar sticking point at the moment so can't help much.
I'd appreciate it if you didnt call me a retard ;D
And i disagree, it might for a little while but she would just get used to it. Why are we still posting in this thread, the deed is done.
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Rushy, if you really are 15 im just curious as to how you think you know so much?[/quote]
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Rushy, if you really are 15 im just curious as to how you think you know so much?
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Cause im a smartass ;D
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haha point taken
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