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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 1:47 am 
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So heres my latest field report but I'm getting stuck and need help. Little background, I went to hooters last week and met a girl there, I would post the link here but I can't; it's under field reports; at hooters.. any suggestions?? Please read if you think it will help you with this one. Ok, now to this story

I go to Hooters today with some buds, hoping to run into the chic from my last story. Unfortunately she wasn't working but another HB8.5 was so I started gaming her. I was talking to my friend as she arrived at the table "hey guys, can I get you something to drink?" Being the AFC he is he immediately turned to her, I however finished the thought I was in (bout 4 seconds) and then turned to her. She said "I'm sorry to interupt" "its ok" I said. "I'll have a sweet tea" and my friend ordered a beer. She brought us our drinks and I asked her "would you like to be part of an experiment for me?" after a few seconds of thought she nodded yes and said "sure". She appeared to now be enthused to do so, but I replied "not right now though, later" trying to build some desire and anticipation for her. She then took our order and put it in. She came back to the table, me and my friend were in conversation, and sat down. After he finished his thought, I looked at her and said "do you always sit down without being asked?" she replied "I can get up if you like" "its ok, you've already taken the liberty" then she said "I have to get up anyway, your food should be coming up" Then she brought I food and we ate. After words I asked her "would you like to sit now?" she said "no you have forbidden me to do so" "well" I said, "I'm ready to experiment on you, but it will take a bit so go take this dirty plates away and come back" she shortly returned. "Ok, have a sit" I said as I pushed the stool out for her. By the way, everytime she came to the table she sat by me, at first out of choice but eventually my other friend arrived and it was out of lack of options. So anyway, from this point I ran the cube on her. She was very impressed by deduction of her and was all smiles. After finishing my theory of who she was she asked "are you a phycology major" "no I'm not" I told her and ironically enough she used to be but changed majors.
So we talked about her reasoning for doing so for a bit. Well during the cube I told her that a new love was coming her way or she was looking for one or some crap like that (her horse was moving toward the cube). She mentioned nothing of a boyfriend at this point. Well after the cube I felt like we had some strong attraction going on but I quickly felt the conversation about to dull so I asked for a refill. When she came back I said "you know, some friends and I are going out tomorrow night you should come" she asked "where" and I told her "to the beau and maybe the rise" she said, "I can't get into those places, I'm only 19" I have to admit I was then at a lost because I don't know any places that are just 18 and up here and I didn't want to seem like I was trying to bend my schedule to accomodate her so I asked "so where do you go for fun?" she said "nowhere, I go to school and work but I do have 3 wks off now to do some fun things. My boyfriend just left for a week and a half and I'm leaving next week" Oh geez here we go with the BF shit I thought. "surely you must do something for fun" I said. No she nodded. "well me and my bf are going camping soon" I then thought and said "wait, so you and your bf are going to seperate locations for christmas?" she said "yeah, we've only being dating like 3 months so I don't want to scare him off by taking him to my family" I really had no idea how to game from there so I AFC'd with "I guess I can understand that" she then mentioned how her best friend was coming down and she hadn't seen her in months so I said "you two will have so much catching up to do and so much to talk about... well she will, you won't because you don't do anything (laughing)" I then made small talk hinting that she and I should get together but it seemed like I definately lost the attraction we had developed early on. I mean I know roughly where she lives, whats she going to school for, her goals, and various other things about her from cube (btw, she rated it an 8 out of 10 and I gave her a high five which was the only kino I did) but I just couldnt get her number, shit lets be honest, she didn't even ask my name..

Where did I go wrong??


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 4:57 am 
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You treated her like a service worker.

... WHICH IS what she is, sorry bro, waitresses - especially hooters girls - JOB is to create excitement and desire in you... to keep comming back... they get hit on - constantly, its almost a joke in the restaurant industry.

The good ones know that dating a customer can cost you your job, and a lot of times its just not worth it. The way you ordered her around - when she's already in the position to HAVE to provide you service, was a little excessive, and makes you look like a controlling person.

... Last thing she wants is a jealous, controlling boyfriend hanging out at her restaurant, ruining her tips - which she makes - by flirting with guys... just like you and me, she gave you false hope - but I bet you had a great time until it was time to leave and you didn't get the number.

Take it for what it is... don't treat a waitress like that again, its a tough job... treat her like a person, and ignore the circumstance she's in - you would have had a better shot at establishing a group friendship and "closing" her outside of her work environment.

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