Hi all, I hope you can help me sort this one out. Sorry if its a long read.

I met a girl a while ago, funnily enough because of my ex long term g/f. We only spoke briefly but hit it off and unfortunatly couldnt talk for more than a couple of minutes. No chance to number close either coz niether of us had our phones with us, and I have a terrible memory for such things.

Anyway, thanks to facebook, we got in touch and mave met a couple of times since then, once at a party and another time for lunch during work. It the party, we talked for maybe 20 minutes, no negs, routines or anything, just good convo. Her friend then came and dragged her away to dance, she asked If i wanted to join them, but i'm a crap dancer, so declined. I thought it could be better by showing her that I dont 'need' to go dance with her (maybe a mistake, maybe a DHV? any thoughts?).

The lunch at work was great, more of the same, but seemd to be having a conversation in roundabouts a little. At the end, we both agreed it would be great to meet again. the following week I txt'ed her to see if she wanted to meet for lunch and she said she was to busy. I told her to let me know when she is free and we'll go then and left it at that and havent been in touch since. That was about 2 months ago

Which brings me to tonight. I had just gotten to a bar/club in Kings Cross (In Sydney for those who dont know it) and was having a great time with some friends, when whe pops out of nowhere and says hi. I quickly led her a few meters away to a couch to talk (slighly quieter) and we caught up - usual questions. After 10 minutes (?) we stood and i suggested we go and dance. Things started to heat up and I was so frustratingly close to a k-close, when she tells me "not here with my friends around." I suggest that we go out of the club for a walk, which she seems happy with, but she fisrt just want to tell her friend she is going first (I guess so they don't worry or whatever) and that she would find me. SO off she walks one way and I went back to my friends coz i didn't want to be alone and looking needy when she came back (mistake?), I saw her a couple of minutes later and she tells me she hasn't found them yet. Off she goes againa and this repeats a couple of times, till she seems to be caught up with another guy (didn't look like she wanted to be there and was kinda stuck - should I have gone in and tried to extract her?) I spoke to her again a little later and am like "whats the deal?" but by that time the moment had already passed.

later i saw her talking to and later kissing another guy which kinda pissed me off, but now i'm kinda thinking she wasn't worth the time in the first place.

So what went wrong with my k-close? was she genuinly looking for a friend to tell her where she was going? or was it just a stall like when she's been to busy at work to meet for lunch? any thoughts/comments?

hmmm... It seems as if she's a little player herself, and that you're going to have to work on your game before you get her. Try vibe'ing her a bit more and watch her closely. You can tell a lot from how a babe reacts to your vibe.