So, I'm trying to think through how I can take the fact that I'm married and in an open relationship, and make it an asset rather than liability. People in general most want what they can't have, right? We've observed that women in general are jealous little creatures. How can I take the fact that I'm perceived as "unavailable" and work that to my advantage? Do single women see it as a conquest to fuck someone else's hubby? (I kinda doubt it, but worth asking.)

Actually, let me phrase that differently: How can I make it a conquest for a single women to take me home with her and screw my brains out even though I'm married? I've seen one comment that me saying that "my wife's OK with it" would be a serious mind-fuck for the girl in question. Hmmm...thoughs here fellas?

Gruuve

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Gruuve....one of your first posts on the thread said something along the lines of, "a lot of women don't mind hooking up with a married man." Or something along those lines. So, with that in mind, how about trying this: go to a bar. Sit down with a friend. You make sure you sit next to a pretty woman. Give it a minute or two, let it build up, and if you see an "in" say something. Talk back and forth, and then reach for your drink with the left hand (ring hand). Don't flash it, but she'll see it. Continue convo like it didn't happen. You might not get it THAT NIGHT, but you will catch a fish sooner than you think. At least I think so. I'm pretty confident that'll work. Keep us posted....

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"I'm like a dog chasing a car; if I ever caught it I don't think I'd know what to do with it" - Heath Ledger as The Joker

Thanks for the post Bronco. That sounds very natural. I do that already. I'm beginning to think that the part I'm weakest at is the escalation. Hmm...let me think about it.

The only catch here is that I really don't want to hook up with a married woman who's a cheater. I don't need some angry husband hunting me down with a gun in hand...I DO have a wife and daughter, and need to insure the safety of all three of us. Single/divorced women are the targets.

Gruuve

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