Guys I don't know where to start. Only times i see girls is at my friends parties (BEER PONG etc.) What openers, routines, attitudes work; as well as when to DHV and neg because most of these posts are for nightclubs? I find myself not knowing what to say because most of the time, the girls that are at the party, are the girls my friends know but I dont. Thanks for any advice. BTW I go to an all boys school so meeting girls in school not happening.

Well I'm probably around the same age as you so I can help. Alright well parties. Great place to get some hoes. Well since it seems like your starting out, try to focus on a girl that won't be too hard to get. I'm not saying go for the ugly girl. Most guys at parties go after that dumb slut thats like a 9 or 10. Go for a 7 or 8. 7 or 8s aren't ugly, they might just feel intimitated by the dumb slutty 9 or 10, and they need a guy like you to show them that they are perfect.

Alright so the approach. Well, just confident. Remember, rejection is like going to hell. It happens. That used to be my worst fear. I actually thought that going to hell wouldn't be as bad as rejection. Fuck that. Just go up to her and say idk, "hey." If she's by herself tell her she looks like she's having fun or something funny. Be sarcastic. C&F is going to soon rule the world lol.

Now just be a funny dude with her. Girls like guys who make them laugh. Shit if there's beer drink a little. Live a little god damn! Always remember though, kino kino kino. Numero uno= kino!

Closing woooo. If you feel that its the right time to k-close then its the right time to k-close. Never second guess yourself. It just brings down your confidence. Never ever bring down your confidence. God damn your with a girl, what the fuck could be better than that. You're the fucking mad. Having negative thoughts just fucks up your mind and then fucks you up (yeah I know.....I have a serious cursing problem ohh fuck meee)

I'm sure there are some fresh k-close routines around here. Shit most of these people are older than us and have a lot of experience. Failing will never be an option with the people here on this forum. They know everything from approaching to closing. I feel bad for those dumb ass guys who still try to approach girls the totally wrong way and never end up getting shit.

Yeah well just be confident, funny, cocky (not an asshole though), sarcastic, kino, kino, and yeah a tad bit more kino, and uhh yeah you'll be fine.

House partys are one of the easiest places to take girls down be confident you have nothing to loose everyone is here to have a good time and meet new people why else would they be there for??

an opener you could use is Hey hows it going? (say this with confidence remember these are just girls you have nothing to worry about ) then follow up so how do you know (the party host what ever there name is)

negs even easier!

Ask her name i know some think you should wait to ask hers but once she gives it too you drop this neg that I've created
ohh is that your party name? she'll ask what do you mean well at partys sometime people have fake names cause theres lots of creepers here look at your self (say this with a smile and with sarcasm) then ask what her party name would be? she will love this and give you some name and get her real name this is perfect for if anyone trys to amog you because if a friend or someone approaches while your talking you introduce her by her party name and give her a smile!

this is someone what it should look like

you: Hey hows it going
her: blah blah
you: Thats awesome it's pretty fun party so how do you know Justin?
her: blah blah blah
You: thats sweet i know him by.....
you: what was your name
her: nicole
you: kinda give her a smile is that your party name that you give out to creepy people? cause if it is mine is Phil



anyways hope this helps try it out ! don't be shy at house party's its high school! funnest 4 years of your life

thanks I will try this stuff but one thing I am confused with is that on this forum I thought you were suppose to stand out from any other ordinary guy. Not just a hi opener I guess but at my age it might not matter. Also do I run dhv stories and routines such as 5 questions or am I just suppose to be funny and fluff talk her and go kino? I will keep you guys updated after this weekend. Thanks

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In my experiences stories are usually un-needed for HS game, social proof alone CAN get you laid. If I use a DHV story I only use 1, 2 max, anymore is just overkill.

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house party game is INSANELY easy provided you do a few things.

"Social proof is enough to get you laid" is perfectly true.

When you walk into a house party, don't look around. Say what's up to whatever scaredy cat is posted up on the wall by the door and walk directly to the kitchen. You'll notice people always migrate to the kitchen and it is always crowded. This is perfect because if you walk in with your head held high, a smile, and go directly to the counter or table and put down your liquor you are basically pissing on a fire hydrant. This is where you are setting up camp to get your first in-party drink going and it is much easier to scope the party. People will notice a kid who walks in to the most populated area and demands space and presence. BE AWARE: you will piss a lot of guys off immediately, but the skilled, smart ones will get along with you. A simple comment like "so many bitches in here, holy shit" will get you in with the guys. Or introducing yourself. If you can open a set of males and have all of them giving a shit what your saying, it will be seen and girls will most likely come up to you. Also it's a good way to see what guy is with what girl and avoid getting into an unnecessary fight - WASTE OF TIME. Ok so you're a little bit buzzed or liq'd up, maybe you decided to roll sober, it's all good, if you're energy is there you've got the confidence. A lot of the time girls will come into the conversatiion you're having with the guys - girls like boys to!!! they didn't get ready for 3 hours to sit on the couch with other females!!! so routines aren't necessary all of the time, but i still use them if i feel a girl is playing hard to get or is special... the same routines you would use downtown or at the mall or wherever. initiate toasts, make everyone take shots, talk louder than the rest of the AFC's. you will most likely know other girls from school there so make sure to talk to them and give them a huge or something. parties are so much easier than clubs because everyone can identify "that guy" immediately. Even if you're not popular at school, you can still gain social status at a party by being able to do just that... party. but don't act like a fool, there's a fine line between being funny and being the funny kid... comedians dont get women, its the charming funny types. good luck.

do what me n my firends did me n my 2 pua friends decided to throw a halloween party you gather people money and booze n have the party n then u n ur friends make a big toast this automatically dhvs u and ur friends and the opener is this situation is my party how u like it most of the attention is focused on u n ur friends and after the party everyone said it was one of the best parties they had been to my friend said it best the ingreedients for a good party is good friends+good booze+random girls and people= amazing party

Man... this is my stomping grounds. my room mates and i just bought a house (were 19) haha theres three of us. But anyways when your at a college/high school party and theres beer pong... Ultimate way to gain some HB's is this. Be C/F. Establish yourself with the hosts of the party. Dont be an attention whore but its good to gain some attention and put yourself out there. Be that guy all the girls in the other room are talkin about "hey have you seen that one guy blah blah blah" But as for a good opener in this scene, claim your the Beer pong champion. Claim you are hardly ever beaten. Approach some HB's and get some kind of opener thats C/F and ask a HB to be your pong partner. an example of something i use is "Hey, i just got here but im gonna get in the rotation for beer pong cause im gonna run the table. Im hardly beaten." etc etc. If she claims shes good or says shes not, neg her by saying your so good your gonna take her on as a partner as your crutch and STILL run the table all night. Beer pong is a great way to get girls comfortable with you and a little alchohol in these H.S. girls make them easy. i hope i was able to help you. if you have questions ask me cause this is definately my specialty haha.

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I agree with all this stuff. Another good thing to do is when u walk in a room, if there's like ten people in there, act real confident and shake everyone's hand saying 'so who are you?' Especially any guys who would normally be intimidating to u. If u do this u look really confident and everyone knows who u are, which is a good step to get girls noticing u.