Having gotten past the first day the rest are easy, until about a month comes around. This is the point where I have the most trouble. This point either makes or breaks your casual dating experience. It just seems like I am not interesting enough to get these girls to stick around. I am funny and outgoing and can make them laugh easily.

I think one possible reason is I have a hard time balancing the whole nice guy thing, and can be overly nice at times where I can come off shy.

Any general advice, and heres a more specific point, How do i still maintain my niceness but still give the girls a sense of danger and excitement?

Be unpredictable and remember that all girls want sex. That is the best advice. Do anything. Today I slapped a HB9 right after opening her. I then poceeded to slap her friend. They love it. Just be different.

If you're going to open the door for her like an AFC (although I think it can be good when you're in comfort), instead, do something DIFFERENT. Like, "Open the door for me you stupid bitch". Sounds crazy but you get a reaction, not an autoresponse.