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I guess you could say I am intermediate, but I am stuck on this one girl. She is in my first period class and I sit with her at lunch. (im a junior in h.s) We have hung out after school about 2 or 3 times. After doing my usualy, comfort, attraction and everything I end the first day with the "do you want to kiss me?" she responds "WWHHATTTT?? ...no!" So I responded, "i didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind." She goes"wow your cocky." huh? whatever. That just told me I had to build more attraction, kino, and shit. So I did.
Today we go to the park and play disc golf. I asked her what does the winner get?
Her: "idk, you pick"
Me: "if you win I will take you to the zoo to see the penguins (she loves penguins and shit, kinda weird) ...If I win, I get a kiss"
Her: "Sam I am not kissing you, you have to work for it."
What the fuck! I guess I fucked up. What can I say to that?
Some background info, this girl is probably the hardest girl I have ever worked with. She is probably a hb7.5 almost 8, but I told myself that I was gona get with her, so I cant let myself down.
Any ideas on wehre to go from there?
sam or w/e your name is - your saying that if YOU win YOU get a kiss. in this context YOU make it out to be YOUR own reward. your your worst enemy on this one. it shouldnt be you reward - it should be her privellege. instead say - if SHE wins she is permitted to kiss you. make it her privellege. and bdw - when she says you jave to work for it she is negging yu. Y get yourself in that position in the 1st place??
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. Moving on *new subject*"