Ok, i have no idea how many people know me on here, i won't even call what i'm going through now a SP.

It's just annoying and it's starting to piss me off like case of conjunctvitis.
As most people know i run indifference game, as in i never give a shit about results of consequences, everything i do with a girl is spontaneous and unplanned, i go with the flow while vaguely sticking to the finer points of PUartistry, and i'm pretty succesful, i get what i want everyone's happy etc etc .

Recently starting gaming this girl a couple weeks back and it was obvious she was on me hard, totally into me and i could tell, she told me and i knew it etc. Recently i'm starting to see myself get in way to deep, i'm thinking about her all the time, i even remember myself being bothered when some other douché tried to run game on her, i wasn't particularly worried if i met add, because i know he can't match me when it comes to this.

But it's not oneitis in the traditional sense, it's like an AFFLICTION that just won't fuck off, like a bad rash and i find myself looking forward to gaming her and seeing her etc etc

And i've gone out and gamed other girls, i've played the jealousy plotline to guage her reactions, etc etc gamed other girls in front of her. And now that i know it's a matter of commitment on my part in other to get her i can't do it, and yet in a way i still want to do it (If that makes sense).

So basically it's affecting my game, but obviously not to an extent where i can't pull other girls, it's just not up to the standard it was before i met this girl.

But whatever, i'll see what i can do about it..Criticism, advice, whatever, all welcome.

Knock yourselves out.

Dempsey.

Sorry to seem like a dick, by why won't you just get with her??

Unless your a noob, oneitis is not a weakness. All these AFC's that pine over a friend they known for years is definately something to be looked down on, but you are not in that scenario.

You seem to have success at pick-up, and be natural around women. I wouldn't call it oneitis at all, I would just simply say you are extremely attracted her - come on, we all find this problem at some point; its wether you want to carry on picking up, or you want to give a relationship a go.

As I always say, Picking Up is one thing, but relationship is like a 'secret level' in the computer game that is the game. And the best cure for this attraction is to get with her and let it run its course.

Theres no failure in moving from pickup to relationship for whatever time period; as long as you keep being social.

Hope that helps

Riot.

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Using situational openers?
Throwing yourself in?
Able to flow conversationally from every good or bad comment they make?
That's the way its done.
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