Hey Guys,
I've talked about this before, but since I'am 26 years old sometimes I get hit with do you have your own place. Now I don't answer right away I usally will say "Hey I just met wanna get to know you first" but if it comes down to me actually getting a F-close i'dont have my own place. Should I just put my game on hold or just keep practicing?

Come on, doesnt she have her own place? You could have your party in her apartment or in her room...

And... get your own place man.

say that your dog has hidden it somewhere. or if she persists say that you cant go in there beacuse its being reconstructed. lol
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So.... where do you live?

Worst case say you're there on business. If you're trying to hook up with a LTR this might become a problem, but sarging, etc, not a problem. Hell, say you just flew in 4 hours ago and don't even know where the local hotels are!

I haven't got my own place and it's never been an issue. I'm always honest about this kinda stuff and because I don't make a big deal of it, neither does she... of course they do hit me with additional tests like "what if your mum hears us?" or "oh my god what if she sees me tomorrow morning what am I gonna say" and things like that. She doesn't really care about that stuff; if she wants to go home with you she wants to go home with you.

I think it's a little differnt here in the U.S.

Well, no reason to just put everything on hold... I would keep sarging and just use it as a learning experience. And if you have... no if your folks have a nice place, then its not half so bad, is it? You can always just act totally indifferent about it, or build value by blathering on about having a strong family etc..

But I wouldn't really know exactly what to do... I didn't just move out when I was 21, I left the country permanently and went half way around the globe.

Seriously man, you are almost thirty. Time to move out.

x infinity.

in HS it's not an issue since nobody has their own place. But after college, everyone has their own place. If you don't have your own place, the only reason I can think of is that you don't have a job. So get off your lazy ass and go get a place and some poonaner.

I always love when a smartass tell's me what to do! lol

Lonewolf, I was there man. When I went away to university, I had to take out student loans that financially crippled me by the time I graduated. I had to move back home until I could get them down to a reasonable level, and I moved out at 25... If I look back, it wasn't bad for getting my finances back in line, but I probably wouldn't do it again because it had a BIG impact on my game, not to mention my social life in general. There was no shittier feeling than being a grown man drunk out of his mind trying to sneak up the stairs on his tip-toes at 4am so he doesn't wake up ma & pa.

I guess the big question is why are you staying home? Unless there's a serious reason keeping you at home, I'd have to agree with what the North Americans are saying here - you should get a place. I think Dalziel's point is totally legit for Europe, but North American girls really see it as a sign of immaturity. If money's a little tight, I suggest finding a buddy or getting a roommate in the classifieds and share a place downtown - this way you can afford a place in a good location with enough privacy to get laid, throw parties, smoke weed, or whatever.

All that being said, I've got some Italian buddies back in Canada that are pushing 30 and not even thinking of leaving home, and they are doing damn well. Of course, you've got to compensate with some seriously tight game...

Thanks Guys,
Iv'e benn talking to some puas in my area that are apart of a different forum. He said it like this in a convo-

HB: Do you have your own place?

PUA: Not at the Moment.

HB: Why not?

PUA: I have'nt decided where I want to live yet, Moving sucks and I only want to do it once.

*After this, move in to a different thread.

This is just something to say and should still keep you in the market but I have headed the warnig and the suggestions from all of you so I'm going to get my act together and get my own place but just as a reference to anyone else with this problem and the above convo is feild tested and should help you out.
Thanks again

I am bored to the high balls of sharing apartments.
Every change of season I set out new goals for myself and I think getting a place to call my own will be high on the list this winter.