okay ive been into this stuff for a while but im somewhat new to mystery method (mostly David D.). So i need some advice for the comfort phase:

First, how do you keep the comfort phase fun? Ive heard youre not supposed to use C/F in the comfort phase. Is this true? Obviously no negging unless its used as a punishment. But to me, it just seems like the whole comfort phase would fade away attraction and kill any sexual tension. How do you keep comfort from getting too boring and going LJBF? Detailed advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks guys.

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Just keep things energetic! Thus, funs stuff will automatically come.
Big smile, a funny joke, a story. Energetic!
one of my friends usualy just starts like "hey u know what happened the other day???" then he tells a story. He keeps things as energetic from a to z

Also, to maintain & grow attraction long-term (not go in to the friend-zone) talk about sex related things.
last week I was talking about how I just watched Casino Royale, then we started talking about how bond always has sex with a dozen chicks in every movie.
And once, i told a girl how I accidentaly dropped some condoms in front of my mom, then I showed her the condoms in my wallet. Since that day, she's been all over me. This happed back in august, and she's still on me "like a bloodhound on a scent" . worst is that she's got a boyfriend already.

Do you guys still work on keeping her attracted during the comfort phase?

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We just talked about this last night!!

Active Sexual Tension vs. Passive Sexual Tension.

All about Push Pull bro.

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Grape's eBook of 2009 (71 pages of useful information) http://www.scribd.com/doc/24523878/Grap ... ok-of-2009

Grape stop smoking pot lol... we didnt talk about comfort last night. But i WAS thinking push/pull would be a great technique to use in the comfort phase... your thoughts?

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Well, negs are not a punishment if you do them right. I almost never neg (real negs) anymore, just use the playful banther, cocky-funny or whatever you like to call it.
But yes, you should start showing interest in comfort. What you want to show is that you are dependable, you are comfortable around her, you have a deeper side and above all, you need to create a connection between the two of you. Also kino escalation, this builds trust.
A properly done kino escalation shows that you do are aware of her signals and respect them, you do not push too much and you are not boring either. This is where you both calibrate each other. If you can also show a weakness it is good since it makes you more human.

Why cant people ask more about mystery method??? your right. if there is comfort you need to keep the attraction there. you need tiny phases of a2 every so occasionaly in comfort. you do neg. just more playful and teasing ways. make sure her value is lower than yours at all times. also - in comfort i always display all of the dhv categories. its not hard - just easy conversation mostly and a lil a2.
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yeah actually i only do a serious neg if she has her bitch shield up wich is probably not gonna be in comfort. I think it would probably be best to stay with cocky funny but definitely dont get to cocky. keep it like playful banter. Do you guys do a lot of push/pull in comfort?

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