First of I'd like to say hello to everybody in the community. I'm new to the forum, but more or less acquainted with the game (from the book that is). I've heard how warm, friendly and helpful the community is, so I thaught I'd check it out. My question, nay, my situation is what I'm here for today.
-Unlike the stereotype difficulties, for instance approaching etc, my problem is in the relationship. I get off to a great start, but somehow along the way, I can't get farther. By this I mean, in bed. I have many chances, and a variety of girls who I can bring to my place, but when the moment comes I just can't. I get too tense, and often freeze up. I have this theory that I got "traumitized" at a younger age with a gf I had. She was a bit older, and a little more experienced, so she was the one who pulled me into bed. That was my first time, and well I couldn't get a hardon. Ever since that time, I get this "what-if it happens again" feeling.
Thanks in advance for reading this long post, and replying anything that's helpful.

Cheers