Hey guys
After a succesfull number close, and Calling three days later and thowing in DHV stories in 15 minutes (which was pretty shit if you ask me trying to put all the pieces together in 15 minutes) I always realised that this HB tells me before we end the conversation "Ill call you later" and I say "Ill speak to you soon" . But is this a IOD ? because I know she will never call back but she says she will maybe as a jesture or something

Oh bythe way let me add one last thing she said "Nice to meet you" line is that good or bad?

She wanted to hang up with you. This is why I ALWAYS tell people not to keep their conversations over 2-3 minutes for any reason. Don't listen to what other people say about having "10 minute" calls. If you've built the report with her already, there's no reason to stay on the phone. It's like robbing a bank and then just sitting there waiting for the police to come instead of getting out. The phone call should be used to arrange a date/gathering and nothing more. Otherwise, you're just spending "time" together. You should be wanting to spend "quality time" together.

After you've arranged for the 2 of you to get together, tell her you've got something important to do and have to go. If she "likes to talk", tell her to come over then. The only time I'll talk with a girl for more than two minutes is over Instant Messenger, and even then, I'll take about a minute in between each message until she gives me a reason to post back immediately. She has to know you have a social life to attend to besides her.

You should ALWAYS be the one to hang up the phone. Not her. Remember, she's wasting YOUR time. That's got to be the mindset.

Good luck, avk. See if those changes in your phone game can make the difference.

- June

I just said what June said in another thread. There's just no need for conversations. The phone is a tool to aide you and most times you only need to sort a time and date, leave it there.