On my first night of sarging I was in set with a hot Italian girl for a long time.

After around 10 mins the kino was off the hook and we were getting close. I sensed the time was right and said "I'm trying to hard not to kiss you." She responded "Try harder".

I was confused and assumed that this meant that she didn't want me to kiss her. I stayed in set for another 30 mins or so, but it seemed that the attraction eventually faded out. I haven't mastered the art of push/ pull by any means, but after asking one of the PUAs I was with, he said that it meant that she wanted me to kiss her and I should have gone for it. I know you should always assume that it's on, but I guess I didn't calibrate accurately.

Did this mean that she wanted to kiss me?

I would have kissed her! I don't like that particular kiss gambit, because of the wide variety of responses you get. In the past I used Mystery's Kiss gambit. "Do you want to kiss me?" Yes- kiss Maybe- "Let's find out" kiss her. No- "I didn't say you could just looked like you had something on your mind."

Look for the "triangle gaze" from your eyes to your lips and back to your eyes when you're in close proximity. If you see it she's subconciously and maybe conciously thinking about it so go in for it.

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Ah so that's what the triangle gaze is. I know Mystery uses the one that I used, but I'll give the other one a try too.

Cheers dude

I was just going over David D's interviews with gurus series and there was a good talk about when 'no means no' and when 'no means yes'...and I hate to have to say it, but rape is disgusting- but stealing kisses is not the end of the world. But then I think of that joke, 'No just means eat me out first'...

I do like talking to a girl about kissing before I kiss her- I don't know why and mysteries line here is really good- but I'll even go in for the kiss after they say no- If they back away (or say stop) then they mean no- if they don't back away and even kiss you back they mean yes.

Anyway I would have kissed her anyways- if she wasn't going to kiss you then at least you'll know and you can focus your energy elsewhere.

If you mention a kiss, you and the chick in the same sentence and the reponse you get from the chick is ANYTHING but negative, KISS THE GIRL.

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So true. Just Do It.

Right on dude. Don't hold back.