So I've met this girl a week ago, and things went really well but I can't get her to escalate beyond make outs. Its strange because I've escalated more attractive girls then her faster. I've built a lot of comfort with her and she's definitely attracted to me. She'll make the move to make out with me on the dance floor and I can tell shes a freak inside, but I've been experiencing a lot of LMR at various points. I just had her spend the night last night but couldn't get her past make outs. I tried a freeze out but I think I should have made it longer than I actually did. I've really never had trouble with a girl as much as this one. I have suspicion that I have conveyed too much intent and haven't made myself high value enough because she keeps trying to make me jump through hoops like "so are you going to take me to that movie?" or "am I this, am I that" referring to being hot. Basically she keeps trying to get me to spend money on her or further dlv. I've heard she has had some bad experiences with guys in the past so I think she's extra hesitant. I'm thinking I need to ignore her for a while and be busy and restart things with a different tactic in mind. Let me know what you guys think?

Quick addition to the above. I might also actually be displaying to much resistance to her hoops. Like she wanted to borrow a shirt of mine this morning and I pretty much told her no. Also, I think I'm being too funny and thus her not taking me seriously enough. It usually works to help neutralize a girl, but perhaps I'm taking things too far and becoming a dancing monkey.

tough situation man.

i think you're on the right track with the "being busy" thing.

get a fresh start.

and then i have a method that i used last time i had this issue:

well after there had been a few make out sessions, with me obviously trying to take it further, and her not allowing it. i decided to play a game.

i told her that we were gonna switch it up. that i had been the agressive one, and she'd been shy, and we we're switching characters. i was gonna be the shy one, and she was the aggressor.

she was hesitant at first, but i just was exagerratingly shy, and waited. its kind of a freeze out until she complies.

a neg/line i used during that point, was "well if we both had your sense of adventure, then we'd just lay here all night"

and it worked.

you're gonna want to retake your position when it starts heating up, but hold character. stay "shy" and let her do the work.

this girl is a good girl. real innocent like. and it got me a blowjob. lemme know how it goes.

freeze out. also try relocating to a more private area.

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The only time a freeze out gets ended is when she engages you. I'm not sure if thats how you did it or if she did come on to you, but the point is to punish her/reward her. Good job on not letting her wear your shirt, don't take any of her shit, be willing to risk losing her in order to convey "Alpha" status. Keep gaming her and she'll give it up

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