Answers To Two Common Questions...


I get different variations of two questions so often, that I'm going to address them both quickly.


1) What if she has a boyfriend?


MY COMMENTS:


Say "Next" and find yourself a woman that doesn't have a boyfriend. I personally don't think it's worth the hassle, energy, or effort. Plus, I don't like to be the guy that ruins relationships. And I personally don't like to date women who have no integrity (think about it). So just find a girl that's single... and chances are that someday soon the one you like will be single... and you'll be more attractive because you're dating other women.


2) I have this girl that's been a friend for 47 years, and how do I get her to feel attracted to me?


MY COMMENTS:


Start making fun of her more, tease her about things, and let her know the details about the women that you're dating. Call her less often, and MOST IMPORTANTLY... if you're planning on getting together with a friend, be ready to risk the relationship forever, as involvement often leads to problems which damage relationships for life. Much better in most cases to find someone new...





***QUESTION***


I have a question. There's this girl that I really like, and she tells me that she just wants to be friends, and I was just wondering, what can I do to make her change her mind?


>>>MY COMMENTS:


This is a great question, and I get it a lot. I think of this as a much different question than the above, as it's usually something that can be fixed. Here's how: If most of the women that you meet are telling you that they want to be "just friends", then it means that YOU'RE DOING SOMETHING TO MAKE THEM ALL FEEL THAT WAY. The good news is that if you're doing something to make them feel that way, then you can start doing something different to make them feel ATTRACTED to you instead.


You're probably not going to be able to do much for the ones that are already telling you that they want to just "be friends", but here's what to do in the future:


STOP ACTING LIKE A "FRIEND" WHEN YOU FIRST MEET THEM!


If you act like a "nice, friendly guy" then a woman is NOT going to feel attracted to you. What do I mean by "nice" and "friendly"?


I mean don't give her too many compliments, don't act shy and don't smother her with attention. Don't call her every five minutes. Don't talk with a tentative, weak voice. Don't go far out of your way to be accommodating too early. Don't tell her that you have feelings for her before you've gotten intimate with her. DO tease her.


DO act Cocky & Funny around her. DO end phone conversations and meetings first. DO act a little bit too confident. DO use The Kiss Test early on in the relationship. DO speak with strength and confidence.


Are you with me?


If you're getting a common response from most of the women you meet, then the common denominator is YOU and the way you're acting. So keep working on it until you get the results you want.

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BRENT AKA "HOLLYWOOD"