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As you are reading this, you should be informed that I am moderately intoxicated during the time of this report's conception. With that in mind, please forgive any grammatical errors.
I went out to a pretty lackluster house party tonight with an HB9 and one of my friends. When we arrived, I realized that the only worth while girl there was the girl who came with my party, so I decided she was my best bet to game. Me and this chick have a history because I tried to game her when I was an AFC and failed terribly. Needless to say I had a lot to overcome. Soon into the party, I tried to run a routine, but realized soon after that it was not going to give a good response so I had to go more natural. I just decided to go into a merciless C/F mode. Within 10 minutes it was working. She was not only feeling her hair, but grabbing mine (I have sort of a 70's style going on) and saying "she just had to". I kino escalated throughout the evening and then dropped a couple of possible threads that could lead to my bedroom, saying that I wrote a really cool song on guitar. She acknowledged the subtle invite and kept returning my kino.
I was on cloud 9 on the way home because I figured some kind of close was going to happen. This was almost too easy. It's only my second week in the game, and I was about to get a close that I actually earned. She lives in my building, and we were climbing the stairs. It came to my floor and I hugged her goodbye and she said that she wanted to come down in a minute and hear me play guitar. I encouraged her to come on down, and that I would just be hanging out (didn't want to sound desperate, but maybe should've taken charge).
Here's the problem, I didn't count on having this work this quickly so I wasn't prepared to get a girl into my room in the way a skilled PUA would. What could I have done to control the situation gracefully rather than ask the obvious and awkward "want to watch a movie?"
And more importantly:
I have her interested, what do I do to make this happen in the near future?
Honestly when I'm that close, I assume the sale. Let's say we've climbed up the steps and we're standing outside your door. Instead of the hug, I'd have put her against the wall, gone to kissing her. Shortly after, I'd take her by the hand and put my key in the lock, and pulled her in the door. You assume she's going to have sex with you until she says No.
I know the "you want to watch a movie?" thing is too obvious. Women like to be swept off their feet, and they like a man in control. This is why this works. Of course, all this is in the past now.
You just need to invite her down to listen to some guitar, since thats different for you. Maybe say, "Hey I need your opinion on this song I'm working on, get down here and listen to this."
When she gets in your place kino escalate, and let things take their natural course.
CHAT