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@Psych3r, you don't have to be a "bad boy" to get girls. I personally feel it's wrong trying to be someone else, or acting like someone else. Deep down you will be the same person and it will eventually come out.
Don't change, but adjust and you will achieve the same goal.
That wasn't the original question. Psych3r's answer seemed very good, and if that's the style of game that shaganator wants, I think that his description was a good start to learning it.
Indeed. And to those who mentioned not being yourself is not good - I agree, but I was answering the question as asked.
Also, admittedly I should have reworded my answer as a description for "Bad ASS" more than "Bad Boy". They really are two fundamentally different attitudes.
A bad ass will kill you for pissing him off, because he has his own moral code. Think Javier in "No Country For Old Men". Perfect example of a realistic human badass. He kills without conscious, but he doesn't kill without reason.
A bad boy more specifically is more of an arrogance thing. Think millionare play boy. They will fuck your little sister knowing she's 17, then after you confront them, blow you off and fuck your mother too, just because they can. It's less of "I don't give a fuck" and more of "I don't give a fuck about YOU".
That take no prisoners attitude can be a huge turn on for certain types of girls. They crave the "danger" and "challenge" they bring. They also consider them total assholes and when they aren't taking it from from behind they are slashing their tires.
If that's what you really want to be, go for it. However knowing people who truly embody that, it's a double edged sword. Yes you get to fuck hot ass bimbos in the back alleys of clubs while their boyfriends are searching for them, but you also have to out run those boyfriends when you find out they are murderous drug dealers, put up with endless property damage from karmic ex flings, and always watch your back because there is no shortage of enemy's you've pissed off everywhere you go.
up to you, but g'luck with that. I personally think just being yourself, but stopping the habit of wanting to please a girl, or put up with what you know is bullshit will have a much more desireable effect. Look at Hugh Heffner, he's the ultimate example of a NON-Bad boy/ass that makes all other examples seem inferior. He is polite, caring, sensative to women's needs, sensual, and unappoligetic. And even before he was rich as fuck, he still dropped ass like it was rain.