some of u may have seen my intro post which i wrote about a week ago. for those that havent, please take a look over it if u have time! thanks

i actually met a woman last night. she's 28 (i thought she was my age) and im 20. fwiw, she said she thought i was 22 (which obv could have been BS ). i asked her if she'd like to do something and she asked me to coffee at starbucks. we grabbed coffee and walked around the mall talking for the next 2hrs. i chatted it up and was super comfortable w/ her -- we have a LOT in common. i was cocky funny, but didnt use any routines on her -- mostly because i dont know any, but also because she's got a degree in psychology and i dont want to set off her alarm bells because i dont know a routine/process smoothly yet. the convo was going great, we even talked about our fetishes as far as sex goes. i negd her about her being a weirdo for being into whips/chains type stuff, but in a playful manner...

i number/hug closed and im curious as to where i should go from here. she's lonely in her apt because she lives by herself and misses her dog (a pitbull). i didnt do kino this whole time and i dont know routines yet! arghhhhhhhh... i crammed some info into my brain last night, and im gonna read more and more today. she's very interested in me, but i need to make sure this doesnt end up in LJBF zone. i also want to take advantage of the fact that the weekend is coming up!

what the heck should i do to make sure she sees me as a sexual target and not just another friend who happens to have a lot in common w/ her?!

thanks!

You need kino ASAP. Just start with playful little shoves or hits. For example, you said she was talking about whips and chains - perfect time to give her a light PLAYFUL push and say 'OMG, you wierdo, I can't even talk to you anymore".

does anyone else have any ideas? ive been reading through MM as fast as i can, but ive been pretty busy and havent gotten to C levels yet.

any advice is much appreciated!