Can anyone give me any sort of help on how to improve my phone game...I just called a girl I k-closed/ #-closed the other night, and the convo was just awful (w/ the exception of some parts)...are there any phone stories? or good phone negs? or just anything in general that can help me out with this problem...the rest of my game is not bad, can always improve...but my phone game is terrible...anything u guys could give me would be great, thanks

Maybe you could point us more precisely about what went wrong

K lol...well the other night she was convinced that I wouldnt give her a call, even though I said I would...so my opener was after the "hey hows it going?" was "bet you didnt think id call you?" and i got an ok reaction...anyways i went on to ask her how the last few days were, and she was trying to create some convo, but i really didnt know wat to say...I tried but nothing really came out of it...so then i asked her if she wanted to do anything tommorow...and she said "maybe...ill have to see if I can fit you into my busy schedule"...most of the times wen i asked her questions the other night, her responses were "maybe" (including the mystery kiss close routine)...so then i changed the subject, and it was going nowhere so i asked her again...then she says "well I got school tommorow, but after that Im free"...so i said "well if you wanna do something after, im free"...n she says "well wat do u wanna do?"...n then i started to pick it up and made up some joke things we should do, which she thought was funny...and anyways, she said she'd call me or text me later...and she texted me right after saying...

HB txt: Hey so I have a question how old are you?
Me: I turned 18 in july. why?
HB: i was just wondering so do you drive?
Me: Yup I got a POS chevy cavalier...its pretty sweet though
HB: Is it in town with you (im only in town for a couple more days, she knows this too)
Me: Yup...

and thats where its at...my phone game is so fucken AFC haha, hell even my text game is haha

i cant help you fix your phone game but you can try to keep it short and sweet, call, say what you gotta say, set up a meeting and save all the good shit for a real conversation thats face to face

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ya im definately gonna do that until i build more comfort over the phone...its the same deal i have with any of my female friends i not gaming on the phone, i just cant get a good convo going ahah...in person though, it just feels alot different, and im alot more comfortable

Yeah I agree...In the week I got my first two numbers I called both girls back to back and the convo didnt last more that 2 minutes. But the imortant thing for me was that we where talking the whole time! I think Silence means "we're not clicking" to girls. They dread it cause they notice it too well. So I ask them how their day was, tell them a little story, set up the next meet, then get off the phone immediately. Each step gives me the power to go on to the next step without any hesitation or lost power cause I come off just as talkative and interesting as I was in the club or party. Plus it lets them know I have other things to do besides talk to them.

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when you want to arrange the next meet with her say something like "ok we're going to lunch tomorrow at 2" as opposed to are you free tomorow" because by askin her that youre giving her the choice and hence the power.

also have conversation starters ready when you call her just incase it does go blank.