I ve been talking to a chick for the last couple of days


i think ive been doing great yesterday over the phone the conversation got heated up when i said

Me:
you know whats great about meeting new people

Me:Its that feeling that doesn't happen so often when getting to know someone ..... yet, when it does its like a bond starts to create between you and this person and in this moment can now connect on so many levels..like right now in this moment its alright to lay back and have crazy times together ... to me is this endless and genuine times last forever in our hearts

thats why i sometimes think "god lets me meet some people for a reason?

girl:


what do you think is the reason why we met?

kind off in a Vulnerable position not knowing what to say..... I decided to tell her to sleep on it.... rip a paper up to make it more dramatic and said my battery is dying said bye and hanged up

The question is how would you handled it...

How would you have handle this question?

You've gone really deep with this routine, which CAN be good, but one problem that AFCs tend to have is that once they go deep, they don't lighten it up again after. You have her feeling all this emotion and its intense, so what you need to do is bring her up for a breath of fresh air and make her feel like everything is gonna be fun and safe and its not gonna be ultra dramatic, even though there is a really deep connection going on here.

I would have said something like, "I can't tell you why we were brought together, but I think we should enjoy life and have as much fun as possible while there is still time and we're still young." Depending on how the situation feels maybe toss in Mystery's "All I can guarantee is that we won't do anything that both of us aren't comfortable with and ready for."

Also, I would stay away from mentioning god, unless you know she truly believes in god (that doesn't mean just because she goes to church, or says she's christian, she has to ACTUALLY believe) otherwise you can end up rubbing people the wrong way. I find when a girl starts talking about how god influences her life I have to try extra hard to not just turn and walk away. I believe in a higher power, but please, I'm trying to interact with YOU, not get your views on religion.

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