Well theres this HB9 in my class and we talk sometimes. I saw her in the gym and she kept eyeing me even though there were like 6 other guys their that were more buff. I dont really see a connection with her so what can you recommend me saying to her to take the friendship further. This girls body is nearly perfect. When I see her I kind of pretend like she not there. I mean shes dam beautiful but my interests arent only beauty but personality. She has a wild personality which I dont really like but let me know what you pimps think. Also, what can I tell her in class like a neg or something about the gym that will get her attention.

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lol, I do the same thing when an extra beutiful girl is around me, she can be too good looking to the extent where I have to act like she is not around in order to not oddly stare at her looks, at the same time still talking to her when needed not sure if anyone can confirm if this is AFC or not.

No one here is a pimp, I would like to think everyone here respects women, and would reject that term. But that’s just semantics I guess...

On from that, if you consider you have a friendship, you have likely already failed. It’s quite hard to get from a friendship position, to a dating position. You can try, but its unlikely I’m afraid.

Also, it sounds like you have oneitis. Yeah. And if you don’t see a connection with her why pursue the interaction? Especially if you don’t like her personality…

As for the neg, related to her working out at a gym... Uh. If you can’t think up something to false-compliment her on in a hot, sweaty environment, where she is straining to lift weights and probably making thousands of strange noises and strained facial expressions, or alternatively not working terribly hard and being lazy … Yeah… If you can’t think up any negs after trying to be creative… I can’t help you.

My personal, honest advice? Find another target.

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If you dont like her personality then you dont like her leave her alone find a new girl who is what you want hunting after a girl because she looks gr8 (which im guilty of) isnt what this is about. I've changed really I go for compatilbilty now days

Pretending like she's not there is basically AFC. An alpha will acknowledge that she is there, but her presence won't be a big deal to him.

LOL. I had the Beauty Problem BAD during high school. There was this girl who was basically the epitome of female beauty in my eyes. I look back at it now and realize that her personality was pretty crap, but at the time I was in total paralysis just at the thought of her. Ignored her presence, couldn't talk to her, total freeze up. I still get that at times and I still don't know what to do!

Ummm . . . it's called . . . t.a.l.k. lol

Seriously. DON'T ignore their presence, acknowledge it, but it's NOT a big deal. They are there. Period. Talk to them, like you would anybody else.

Oh, I'm able to talk to a beautiful girl. My ex was gorgeous beyond belief. It's just that beauty has a really bad way of hijacking my brain. All I want to do is stare and take in the sight.

Hey friend,

Once again LA Tripp is right guys. These are just girls you know there just people all you have to do is engage in covo with them and your better then 50% of the other guys who just stared. As for picking this chick up What I would do is not even acknowlege that I saw her in the gym. Instead next tyme your in class have her turn in some homework for you this will make the hotty jump though her first hope for you.If she complies now you can start your game. just my advice I know others will help as well.

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Style number closed a playmate of the year at UCLA by opening with a neg about her overbite (she didn't have one). Just make up a flaw and zing it home. Stay on the heals of your feet like you're about to walk away at any time, kind of look past her or around a lot, I notice Mystery does that. Keep it brief, DHV yourself, and number close.