I've been seeing this HB9 for about 1.5 months now. We've done a couple activities together such as hiking, ice cream etc. However, for the majority we go out on weekends to the club and are mostly drinking. She is an Investment Banker and doesn't have much time during the week to hang out.

I have not yet F closed her. It has also come up that she does not want a relationship because she just got out of one about a year ago and she wants to focus on her career.

She has given me plenty of IOI's. Furthermore, she texts me first thing when she wakes up for work, throughout the day and also calls once in a while. When we are out drinking and I walk away she will latch on to my arm and come with me etc Which further reinforces that she does like me. After the club we usually go back to her place. She lets me sleep in her bed; however, I have not F closed her yet or really even given it a shot.

Many guys are after her and give her attention and try to take her to lunch or for drinks. She does take them up on these offers. However, I know for a fact that I'm the only one she allows to spend the night.

Today being Thursday I suggested we hang out after she's done work. I was planning on Ice Cream and Bowling; however, she said she couldn't hang out for long. So she wanted to just grab some pasta and go home. She also suggested another day where she might have more time. I negged her for not being very fun etc. This was not the trype of evening i had planned for so I told her that we should leave it for another day and that another female friend of mine wanted to take the boat out tonight , and that's what I would be doing instead.

I figured this would be a good tactic since many guys want her , she probably hasn't been blown off before.

Needless to say she wasn't very happy she replied 'WTF" To which I didn't reply . She later msgd me saying that I was rude.

How do I handle the situation from here?

Just say "TMI?"

(For people who don't know (god bless you) TMI is Too much Information)

You have to get her to say the specific action you made and the emotional response it caused in her before trying to repair anything. Assuming sets you up for further bad shit

It's short, sweet, get's you a lot of info, and doesn't make this into a big deal.

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