Alright I've already gone out with this girl before. we broke up cuz of the age factor at the time she was 16 and I was 20 my parents freaked out about her age even though her parents are cool with it. We met each other because we worked together I stopped working there but now I went back.

So now she's going out with somebody else who also works there. But she's been texting me alot and flirting on the job and acting like she wants to get back together. She turns 18 this September. Recently she was telling me how much she wants to break up with him and she did. But then later I found out that they got back together. But at work she still flirts with me and stuff. One day after work she text me saying "i miss you" and "i got back with him cuz I just didn't know what to do becuz you can't be with me till I turn 18" and then she was promising me she wouldn't be with him by the time she turns 18.

Couple of days ago I called her to ask her for directions to this place and she gives the phone to her boyfriend. (WHAT THE???) Afterwards she texted me saying "Awkward much" she also talks about how it's awkard that we all work together alot. Recently i stopped responding to her for her awhile.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?? and don't give me this move on crap or stuff about her age cuz if you saw how she looked you'd understand.

Whenever a girl you are gaming breaks up with her boyfriend, that is your WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY. That is the most obvious chance she will give you, and it will usually be over within a couple times of you not making a move when you chill together. She will get bored, realize that it was a waste of time, and get back with him. Don't trip about it, if she did it once than it almost always means she has enough attraction to give you another shot if you have continued to game right.

Agree with relaxed^ she will definitely break up with other dude for you, she's just waiting for the right timing. Now you just gotta ask yourself if you are looking for an actual realtionship with this girl, because obviously she is one of those that feels she needs to be in one. If youre just trying to hit it, you could be in trouble with a potential "stage 5 clinger" haha...but if youre looking to date her, then I would say youre basically golden.

alright what's a stage 5 clinger?? my bad lol. and she's been trying to hang out and stuff alot lately kinda as friends. Should I go when she asks me to go somewhere or just decline all the time

I would decline sometimes, but with good reason. Like just always be busy with something great to do. Next, her bf answered because he saw u were calling. Im sure she was like "oh fuck" in her head, but played it off like, whatever answer if u want as not to alarm him. It is weird u r working at the same place, but whatever ur not the first guy to fuck a girl who's bf works with u. Shit happens. She is telling u she misses u n whatnot, ur pretty straight. Wwhy r u not fucking her again? Is it because she is 17? I dunno how your state is, but there is a fair chance that's not illegal. If u are in no way worried about the law, why are you not fucking her? You two don't have to be bf/gf or tell your family shit! This girl is basically throwing herself at you n u don't seem to wanna do anything about it. Its whatever with the bf, she just wants to keep someone around who is into her n shows her affection. She will next him when necessary. She already did, u just didn't close her. I personally don't dig younger girls (20-). I don't like dealing with all the immature bullshit, plus I like to go out to bars n clubs alot, so taking that out of the equation is beat. Anyways, what are your intentions with this girl? One thing I would suggest is to go get some other girls! I realize this girl is hot, but there are a fuck million hot girls. Im not saying give up on this one. Go get her! Im saying if you go hook up with some hot girls your own age, you may realize you prefer not dealing with immaturity. Good luck buddy. Hope this helps, n post results.