| OK, although I'm new to the forums and the PUA world in general, here is one 'technique' I have used on numerous occasions which has almost always been effective. I call it......
The Psychic Bouncer Routine
I work in a nightclub as a bouncer/doorman. When a girl that I like approaches the door I'll ask to see her ID for proof of age. When she hands over her card, I memorise her first name (and middle name too if she has one). I don't chat or make any kind of connection with the girl at this point. The key here is to be as 'forgettable' as possible.
Basically: Card her, memorise her name, let the girl in. End of for now!
Now, throughout the night it's almost inevitable that at some point that girl is going to pass by me again inside the club. It's a confined space afterall. This is when I open.....
I usually open with "Do you believe in psychic powers" before saying "I used to dabble in wicca and the white-arts" (flirt-lies).
"Anyway" I'll say "The reason I ask is because I feel a strong connection with you. Do you mind if I try a little test?"
I'll usually do the 'number between 1-4, number between 1-10' trick followed by the 'Magnetic finger' trick (though any cold reading tricks would work too).
FINALLY - the icing on the cake - The Psychic Bouncer Routine.
ME: "Still skeptical?"
HER: "Yep"
ME: "What if I was to read your mind and guess your name?"
HER: "No way!"
ME: "Yes way!"
HER: "Prove it!"
Now do you see why it is so important to be so 'forgettable' when you ask for her ID? Trust me, she shouldn't remember if you do it right.
At this point I ham it up big style. I take both her hands in mine and tell her she has to slow her breath down to slow, deep breaths and hold my gaze. Not to look away but to keep focussing on my eyes.
I start by counting out the numbers in her name:
"1, 2, 3, 4, 5, etc"
Then I state I'm going to guess the first letter in her name:
"A, B, C, D, E, etc"
Then the last letter:
"A, B, C, D, E, etc"
I pause....then say the name with supreme confidence.
Most of the time this will leave her bamboozled but sometimes she'll still be skeptical. This is why it's always a good backup to remember her middle name. Afterall - you may have overheard a friend saying her first name.....but her middle name?
Once the routine's over I usually send the girl on her way....
"Off you go, I'm trying to work here"
I generally find it leaves her wanting more.
Now I know most of you won't have the opportunity to check a girls ID before opening....so I'd like to know how you could adapt this technique.
Perhaps you could ask a friend for her name? Perhaps you may hear it being used in conversation with her friends? Hell, promise to give the barman a healthy tip if he asks her for ID and gets her name for you.....
This has been the most useful tool in my arsenal to date so I hope sharing it with the community helps.
Healz
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