Last week I was at a rap concert and got brought on stage to participate in a freestyle competition, which I won. After the show I ran into some people who invited me to go to someone's house to hang out and drink and smoke. As we got into the car an HB 8 or 9 got in and since there were 6 of us, they said she'd have to sit on someone's lap, and she chose to sit on mine. As we were driving there she said "I have to shake your hand for winning, good job!" and we chatted a little bit.

Over the course of the night we talked about music, I told some DHV stories and threw some negs, even got her to get me the last beer (she played like she was offended but went and got it anyway). Things seemed to be going pretty well as she ended up sitting next to me and we were very close together on the couch even though there was plenty of room on my side, and she seemed to be giving me some IOIs.

She ended up going outside to have a cigarette and stayed out there to talk to some other people, and I got bored and decided to leave. As I walked past her I paid no attention to her and she said "Uh, bye I guess..." so I told her to friend me on Facebook so she could send me some pictures she took of the show.

That weekend I sent her a message on Facebook asking her if she knew of any parties, this was her response:

"haha i don't knowwwww i'm chillin at home and hatin myself for not gettin on the party scene
whatev..hit me up haha
(xxx) xxx-xxxx"

When I got the message I didn't see it all (I was checking it on my phone and the second half got cut off) so I didn't realize she gave me her number, so I just responded:

"Oh I thought you were a party girl well I heard about some joints so ill check those out, ill holler at you later"

The next day I realized she gave me her number, so later that night I called her and she didn't pick up. So I left her a text saying "I'm sorry, was I supposed to call you last night?" I got a text back that just said "Th", I figured she sent the send button too early or something, so I replied "I'm sorry, what does "th" mean?" She never replied.

It's been a few days since then, what do you guys think about this? I figured the fact that she volunteered her number meant she wants me to call her, should I try calling back? What should I say?

It sounds to me like you blew an easy opportunity......twice. Allow me to elaborate; this bitch was obviously wanting to hook up the night you supposedly won this rap battle. You basically were doing a good job talking but beyond that you sucked a fatty bro. Please don't take this as an insult but instead as me laying down your situation. The bitch sat on your lap then you both had good conversation the whole night after that you're sitting right next to her on the couch. You've bored her to death at this point because you didn't make a move beyond talking the whole night so she goes to smoke a cig. Then you take off without saying anything to her. Your damn lucky to have gotten to add her on facebook after the pathetic loser you just played. Anyways after that when she sends you the email with her number and you dont call her instead you send her a message (and dont play around the only reason you didnt call was because you wanted to read some forums on talking to bitches over the phone and felt you werent ready to make that commitment until you got advice on the internet..you geek!) so now she knows your a poonani so she dont pick up your phone call. You blew it and you need to quit before you embarrass yourself anymore. But its not all bad man the chick was probably a skank i mean cmon now. She basicall picked up on YOU

yallignant while i think everyone sees your point there is perhaps a better, more tactful way of expressing it. dont be so negative

freebyanymeans, good job, you obviously had impressed the girl and had her attention, dont sweat the text msg thing, you dont want to call to often or contact her to often as you will come off as needy. if i was you i would somehow find a way to "accidentally be where she is" then see if she approaches you. if this happens i would say something along the lines about how youve been busy with your music then maybe say something like you been thinking about checking out this club/restuarant/whatever and that she should come, it will be fun.

as far as your game is concerned the only thing ive really noticed is that you apoligize too much. remember alpha males act like they dont give a shit, but by all means dont be rude.

i hope your situation is salvageable, if not dont worry go and find more targets. i try to at least have 3 other "backup targets". remember you dont want to develope oneitis.

by the way good job on winning the contest

skittlepimp

Thanks for the advice skittlepimp, I appreciate it.

When I wrote "I'm sorry" in the texts it was meant in a sarcastic, joking way, but I realized afterwards that it may not be obvious in a text.

Maybe I will run into her in the future but who knows if or when. I have plenty of other girls I'm sarging but this one just seemed like the best opportunity. Oh well, if it's too late to game her over the phone then I'll just focus on other HBs and hope I run into her eventually.

I agree with skittle here. . . look at it as a learning opportunity if nothing else.