The way I game is by by using charm and seduction. I go up to the girl game her, get her number, and close. Then when I text her and start feeling attraction towards her I turn into AFC MAN! I can't help it! I start talking to her all nice like (how was your day beautiful) and all this non alpha male shit. I think this is why all my relationships have ended up with me being dumped because I put so much AFC pressure on them. But the opposite happens when I have no attraction towards a girl. I game her like a real alpha male should and don't really care what I say or if I hurt there feelings or not. This is probably why all my exs are in love
With me because when they text me I turn on pua mode and game them how I should. I think i act nice because I'm afraid of losing them. Please give me some advice or something to help this problem.

-warkid10

You're giving these beautiful girls too much value. its natural to feel outcome dependent when you're gaming a hot girl..why? because you wanna fuck her. You dont wanna fuck the ugly chick, and thats why you don't give a shit..which leads me to the major point..

When you play it cool, and don't give a shit about what happens, you will pull in mad hotties with no problems. you just gotta change your state of mind..no biggie man, you got this..

another thing, ditch the texting shit. texting is for planning to meet up, and other minute superficial shit..you cant build attraction through text.

good luck!

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Thanx man. I wish I would have read this a little earlier. I think I'm out of luck now. I know she liked me from the start. But after a week or two the attraction just started fading. Then she says she doesn't want a boyfriend after she was all on mi dick about how much she likes me. She's in my art class and we've only known eachother for a few weeks. I going back to school Monday. What do you think I should do? She usually sits by me and my friend and talks to us. I might just give her the cold shoulder and ignore her.

No problem man, and heres what I think you should do next:

As bad I know you probably want things to work out, you really have to be willing to to just say "fuck it" and let her go. If the attraction has faded, then don't even stress..just learn from this experience and change how you do things next time. trust me man, nothing is worse than exhausting yourself by trying to "make" something work with a woman. It's sabotage.

It's so much easier to game an entire new girl, than to waste your time trying to fix and figure out this current chick. So just play it cool..if she speaks...speak back..if she engages you..push a little bit. Don't be an asshole to her, but freeze her out a bit. Remember, a woman needs a reason to want you..and that reason can just simply be that you're not available.

and in regards to that whole "I don't want a boyfriend" line. hahah dude, pretend she didnt even say that cause it dosent mean shit.

good luck brotha

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Thanx again. So I Monday I talked to her a little bit during class but not nearly as much as we always do. And I acted like I wasnt engaged.

Her: Hayy!
Me: hay
Her: how was your break?
Me: fine(then I walked away.)

Then she text me sometime during class am I mad at her. I Waited
Till the next day to respond and I said I don't know. She said what?! And I said (i don't know. I'm jus a little confused). Then today I hardly talked to her and one of her bestfriends (is a guy) came up to me and asked if I liked her and I didn't respond. Not sure if I did anything wrong. And what should I do next.

-warkid10

Not bad not bad..
but you kinda killed it a little when you told her that you were confused. It kinda displays lower value because by saying that you're "confessing" your feelings. It makes you look vulnerable. The key is the remain slightly mysterious to the point where she cant quite figure you out. Once a woman figures you out...YOUR TOAST. girls love trying to figure guys out, and when they do, they have nothing else to work for...and when they have nothing else to work for..they loose interest...and when they loose interest..its over.

BUT! i still think there is hope for you in this situation. Remain cocky/funny, mysterious, and unpredictable. Like I said before, give her reason to want you. Don't shun her too much because then she'll just think you're a jerk and not want to talk to you anymore. But see, look how when you pushed a little she immediately texted you trying to figure out whats going on.

I'm telling you man, Display your intentions but dont verbalize them. Show her your interested through your actions...remember actions speak louder than words..and actions will also get you laid..

good luck man.

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Ok. Today in class I didn't talk to her that much besides when she asked me a question. The whole class period I could feel her staring at me, it was kinda weird. I finally looked over at her and stared her right in the eyes and she said. "why arent you talking"? I changed my face to a blank look and said I don't know and continued my work. She asked me this about 3 other times. And she just kept looking at me.