Well, i'm confident and happily talk to a girl, BUT i dont tease, i think i just try to offend these girls, without trying if that makes sense. For example, a girl i was talking to said " my friend gave me these boots" and i went " Well thats a bit Skanky" (Skanky: poor unpleasent almost) i always do these with a smile, thats just one example, she didn't seem offended she just punched me gently and laughed a little, but i think i'm just being a dick, (sorry if we are not allowed to use bad language on this forum) is she offended by how she acting and should i curb this, Do girls like this?? ..... I'll be honest from what i read on here it seems i'm doing this Shit wrong...
From NEG'S that i see on here, i'm not doing these, with neg's your almost throwing a compliment, but a back handed one. should i change my way???

Cheers, really appreciate the feedback.

Your not being a dick but by saying
"Well thats a bit Skanky"
is not a neg thats just basically an insult.

A neg/Disqualification should be said like its just a passing comment and in your head you didn't evan realise that it could be interpreted as being an insult.

For example if she said
"my friend gave me these boots" you could say...
"wow you have really big feet"
"why did she get rid of them were they to big for her?"

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Soo, i shouldn't do this??... it seems too be that it's a knee jerk reaction, say, if i just met a girl and said something almost as an insult, like i did with the boots, she would be annoyed right??? the girls i talk to and do this laugh and "seem" not to mind, is this the case?

Thanks for your comment

I agree with giff it is just an insult.
"Those boots are cool........ in a skanky way" Then laugh
"Those boots are skanky......in a cool way" Then laugh
"Those boots are great, I see a lot of women with those"

Or propose it like a question, "Those boots are cool. You don't worry about them looking to skanky?" Keeps her talking and allows you through out some DHV spikes.

"I have got like 3 girlfriends that got those same boots, they always ask me that question all the time. Like I forget they have them" "Sometime I say yes so they don't wear them so I don't have protect them.....all night."
1.Pre-selection 2.Protector of loved ones.
"Not to mention my guys asking me if their girlfriends look to skanky in those same boots."
3.Leader of men

Shit home boy that is practically a routine! LOL
I would say good luck but you don't need it, your a PUA!